blindhope Posted November 22, 2013 Posted November 22, 2013 I've come to find that the hardest part of breaking up is the hopelessness. There's nothing you can do when you love someone more than they love. Its like jumping out of a plane and with an auto deploy shute. You need to trust at some point everything will be ok, and you'll be comfortably gliding safely to the ground. But for the time being all you can see is it all racing toward you as you plummet. Never know when or how it will end, who will be there when with you as you walk away. Its a feeling of helplessness and bring lost. There's no amount of studying or education that will give you the right answers to what you want and need. No amount of time in the gym or exercise that will solve the situation. No matter how hard you work or try its impossible to overcome being the one w hi o loves a person that doesn't love you back. All I've heard is it takes time. And its said so much it must be true, it has to be. Because in this free fall its hard to focus and see any clear happy future.so some day that shute has to open so I can again look around and see it all make sense again. 3
Mz_sassy_77 Posted November 22, 2013 Posted November 22, 2013 I too think the hope is the hardest part. Throughout all the other emotions you have hope is always there. I don't know when it will go away. I don't know why I hope because logically I know it was a bad relationship and I wasn't happy so getting back together would not be a good thing. I think time is the only thing that makes it easier. I think about my ex a lot less now then i did after the BU. I hope that in time I will only occasionally think of him. I believe that time does heal and the further you get from OP and the BU the better you get.
freebird31 Posted November 22, 2013 Posted November 22, 2013 That's what having faith is all about. There are some things that we are not sure of or what's going to happen to us. The future is completely unknown. But having faith that everything will be alright is the only thing you really need to know you'll be okay. some things aren't in our control so, we just can trust God that he has better plans for us. 2
hurts2death Posted November 22, 2013 Posted November 22, 2013 you are falling into a new enviroment, be a man act like a soldier. get tough . -SURVIVE-
Author blindhope Posted November 22, 2013 Author Posted November 22, 2013 It not that I'm scared of what's new or I want to love her. I just do. I wish I could hate her and just move on, but I cant and that's where my frustration lies. Its not that I can't move on and enjoy life. As it is I've done things I'd never thought I'd accomplish in the past 10 months. I been busy and certainly dove head first into a new life and unpredictable future It just it like having an ice pick stuck through my chest knowing that I still care for her yet I'm nothing too her. Which where we were even a year ago I never could have imagined. But ibmust play the hand I'm dealt as we all must. And through life there's plenty of time you'll have to fold the hand but that doesn't mean you get up from the table all together.
Recommended Posts