Isabella82 Posted December 28, 2004 Posted December 28, 2004 I really need some input on this, anyone please help. I just read through some e-mails that I know I should not be reading. And now I am in tears. I earlier posted about my ex being on a dating website, and I was kind of glad because that meant that he was single and wasn't in love. As I was reading his e-mail he did fall in love with someone! We have been broken up for about 7 months, and he fell in love with some girl that lives in another country, well canada. I know this is stupid to be upset about because he has never met her, but he told her that his feelings were real, and they talked about sending eachother text messages and how that made his day. Sending eachother kisses through text. He used to always do that with me. He told her he didn't want to stop talking to her because she was a great girl. Well he stopped talking to me I am so hurt right now, I am crying as I am typing. I wish I never read those e-mails. I just am so hurt right now, I know now that he is completely over me. I mean he has these feelings for someone else, and I know they never met but it is still feelings. I have had guys ask me out on dates and I always tell them I am not ready, I am not over my ex, and that I am sorry. But he went as far as saying I love you to someone else. After 7 months. Well he told me he loved me after 1 month but I have known for 4 years before that. Please help! I was doing so well, but this is so bad.
HokeyReligions Posted December 28, 2004 Posted December 28, 2004 I think its always harder on the one who did not find love first. It hurts, but its over. Go ahead and date - just don't get serious right away but at least get out and use the date as a distraction. If you broke up 7 months ago, how did you come to read his emails? Sever any connection you have with him - let go. You can't move forward with your life if you are looking back and holding on to some thread of a defunct relationship. Let go and move forward.
Author Isabella82 Posted December 29, 2004 Author Posted December 29, 2004 You are so right. It is time for me to move on, and I thought I was doing so much better, until I read those e-mails. I am no longer going to read the e-mails it just hurt too much. I just figured out his password so I figured I'll read them what the hell. I just wish I hadn't. I guess what hurts me the most is how he told her she was a great girl and he didn't want to stop talking to her, and he was honored blah blah blah. I understand how he has only been talking to this girl for a few months, but he was with me for two years and he never once told me that. He told her that it was stupid for them to ruin their relationship over something that could be resolved and fixed, well why didn't he say that to me. He told her they had so much in common, well we had a lot in common. It just seems like he is saying all this stuff to a girl that he has never met before, and he was with me for 2 years known me for 7 years, and he doesn't even try to contact me or anything. Now I am completely done with me, I don't even want him anymore. I see him for who he is and that is a liar. I mean as he was talking to her, I found other e-mails to other girls just about stupid things like your sexy. Those are all from BangMe.net. I just hated hearing all the things said to this girl, when I thought he should be saying all of that to me.
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