efedude Posted November 21, 2013 Posted November 21, 2013 SO first off, Ive never felt like this for a girl ever before. this one girl in my Spanish class (I'm a sophomore and shes a freshman) Ever since the first day of school I have liked her more and more. I don't like her because she has a "big ***" or anything like that. I simply like her because she seems like such an amazing person and she is just so unique. So she sits about 3 seats in front of me and I never get the chance to talk to her before class because I get there just as the bell rings . Today, during class I was giving gum to a friend that sits near her and she was looking. I kindly asked if she wanted a piece and she nodded. I gave her the gum and got back to my seat. I have been looking at her in class for a good month or so and the only interaction we had was the gum thing. I honestly cant even focus on class because of how attracted I am to her. I can usually talk to girls just fine and I'm not weird or ugly or anything like that. I just need advice on how to approach her she makes me SOOO UNEASY! she has no facebook but ive seen her texting in class. I dont know any of her friends any advice? I
Philosoraptor Posted November 22, 2013 Posted November 22, 2013 So she's got a nice butt I take it? Philosoraptor loves him some booty. Sit with her at lunch, catch her before or after school to chat, and get to know her. Simply say "Hey, I'd like to get to know you better" and ask her for her number or something.
d0nnivain Posted November 22, 2013 Posted November 22, 2013 Ask her if she will help you study for the next quiz or test. While you are doing that ask her how to say flirty things in Spanish, then repeat them back to her. After you do this for a while, ask her to a school event
madjac74 Posted November 22, 2013 Posted November 22, 2013 If you really like her then maybe get to class early. Stop using the "Im always late" excuse not to talk to her
DrSimple Posted November 22, 2013 Posted November 22, 2013 A. Slow Approach When you see her just start making short bits of small talk. Get her to notice you exist. Do not try to be a friend. If you do a hard approach she might be wondering why a guy she never talked to is interested in her. After a little bit of conversation here and there you will be a bit more comfortable as well, then ask her on a date/for her number/study session/whatever. B. Hard Approach This takes guts because you will have to overcome your fear of rejection. Just approach her! It is simple and alleviates any tension. The biggest tension inside you is uncertainty. Once you resolve the situation by being accepted or rejected then you can move on to the next step. C. Don't do this - Do nothing If you do nothing then you will continue to live in a fantasy of what it would be like to be with this girl. Fantasy is sweeter then reality, it blinds you from the truth. If you fail to take a shot, you will regret it later.
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