OCCDAVE Posted November 21, 2013 Posted November 21, 2013 I know I'm going to come off as a cheapo but here goes.I have 3 dates planned for Thursday ,Friday and Saturday . Girl 1 is a 10 we talked a but Saturday night then Sunday we chatted a bit then she agreed to hang on Friday .Since then she's been Mia I'm guessing shes busy (or most Likly not interested ) Girl 2 same song and dance Mia and said maybe for Saturday .She was super busy 2 weeks ago if I get flaked this week shes done in my books . Girl 3 is cute .We been chatted most of week tbh convos sometimes seem onesided but she claims shes shy but has shown more interest Well any advice will help I'm not about to go broke this weekend lol.Plus is it wrong to expect to hear from most girls during the week or at the start I need to do all the chasing
clia Posted November 21, 2013 Posted November 21, 2013 Do you have a confirmed date with any of them for the weekend? It doesn't sound like it. If you are still waiting for them to "decide" whether they are going to go out with you, I would contact all three one last time and tell them that they need to let you know today whether or not they want to go out with you. If not, you are going to make other plans. Be sure to ask specifics. For Girl 1, "Are we on for Friday night? Please let me know today so I can make other plans if you aren't available." For Girl 2, "Are we on for Saturday? Please let me know today so I can make other plans if you aren't available." Etc... You don't have to go broke. Take them somewhere free or inexpensive.
Author OCCDAVE Posted November 21, 2013 Author Posted November 21, 2013 Well two of them we did have def plans the only one who wasn't set was girl who got her number 2 weeks ago.I tried to ask her last Saturday but she had b day plans last Saturday .She ends up showing up at my work cause she wanted to surprise me.So I said lets shoot for this Saturday got the whole maybe bs and have yet to hear back.Other one we are suppose to go to chillis today I may change it to grab drinks.I sent one for Friday a text Me-hey we still on for Friday Her-yes Me-sounds good Talk about a interesting convo lol I dunno maybe I'm crazy expecting girls to make efforts
d0nnivain Posted November 21, 2013 Posted November 21, 2013 How much time do you expect to spend with them. More time may be more money. Dinner doesn't have to be that expensive if you pick a BYO place (which can be a pain if you don't know what the other person drinks). Meeting for a drink early in the evening (before 7) could be inexpensive but as the night wears on, it will get more costly. You may be able to meet for coffee or ice cream. How about going to a museum?
Author OCCDAVE Posted November 21, 2013 Author Posted November 21, 2013 Well for today's date had planned it for about 6 so if we go to chillis like planned maybe an hour which may run me about what 50 give or take so maybe hit up a sports bar watch the game/drink. One on Friday told me shes free from 12 to 2 Tomo so gonna say lets grab Starbucks (which won't break me) maybe spend like 30 mins with her ?As for the last one like I said shes shown interest when she's met me at work then goes Mia so tbh I sent a text yesterday no reply (in a time were ppls phs are glued to them I'm sure shes read my text) So that's gonna be case closed Saturday
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