FearingTEN Posted November 21, 2013 Posted November 21, 2013 I feel like crap. I feel depressed. i miss her so much. I cant get her out of my mind. UGGGH. I feel like i'm going crazy
Pa76 Posted November 21, 2013 Posted November 21, 2013 I hear ya! It sucks so much! I don't want him back just want karma to smack him SO hard.
me85 Posted November 21, 2013 Posted November 21, 2013 I know and I find that mornings are the WORST! I still cry in the shower before work.
LadyM Posted November 21, 2013 Posted November 21, 2013 I know what you mean.....I am SOOOOO tired of thinking about him! I just want the thoughts of him to stop already. It seems endless... 1
xUnknown Posted November 21, 2013 Posted November 21, 2013 Try to remember all the BAD things. I was just where you were...was doing great for 3-4 weeks...weeks 5-7 felt really ****ty, now feeling better again. Keep your chin up. The good thoughts are going to want to come into your mind...don't let them, you need to force them out.
Pa76 Posted November 21, 2013 Posted November 21, 2013 Try to remember all the BAD things. I was just where you were...was doing great for 3-4 weeks...weeks 5-7 felt really ****ty, now feeling better again. Keep your chin up. The good thoughts are going to want to come into your mind...don't let them, you need to force them out. I have actually found thinking of bad things not to help me. I thought it would help but I get more down. 1
LadyM Posted November 21, 2013 Posted November 21, 2013 Same here. I made a whole long list of "bad things" and it doesn't help a bit. Instead, it just makes me feel sad that someone I cared for deeply would treat me so miserably. 1
me85 Posted November 21, 2013 Posted November 21, 2013 NOTHING makes it "better." We just have to let it run it's course like a virus. I go through 3-4 days of pure HELL, not eating, hardly sleeping, feeling and actually being sick, then I come alive again. It's so strange too, because it comes on so strong out of nowhere and I feel like I've been hit by a damn bus. I've never been so down about a guy. My last RS the guy broke my heart and a year & a 1/2 later came around wanting me back. Turns out he was a coward playing games. Guess he never thought I'd move on & I did. All of my ex's do this...WHY??? So effing dumb. & they were all supposedly adults too. In their 30's. Too late guys! When I'm done, I'm done. So I look forward to the day when I am over my most recent ex and it is going to be even more sad if he realizes what a mistake he made later down the road (like others did) & I will be over him at that point because we really could have had it all. 1
xUnknown Posted November 21, 2013 Posted November 21, 2013 Same here. I made a whole long list of "bad things" and it doesn't help a bit. Instead, it just makes me feel sad that someone I cared for deeply would treat me so miserably. Maybe thats why I started feeling like **** again haaha
LadyM Posted November 21, 2013 Posted November 21, 2013 Wow, Me85.......You are so right. It is like a very long virus that has to run it's course and nothing makes it better. I love that analogy! 1
me85 Posted November 21, 2013 Posted November 21, 2013 Wow, Me85.......You are so right. It is like a very long virus that has to run it's course and nothing makes it better. I love that analogy! Thank you! It makes so much sense, doesn't it? I mean, we ARE lovesick. lol I've got it BAD! I'm even willing to remain friends...WTF?! I NEVER think that way or do that. EVER. I always preach about how I have never, could never & will never be friends after. EVER. That HAS to be the virus talking. So ya, I'm pretty effing sick.
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