planb1973 Posted November 21, 2013 Posted November 21, 2013 I just got back from a date with a woman I have gone out with a couple of times and noticed something. The first time I met her I thought she was attractive, but not super hot and sexy. After a goodnight hug and lets meet up again I was driving home and kept smelling her perfume on me. Made me keep thinking about her. Went on a second date and she suddenly looked much more attractive and driving home I kept smelling her perfume on me. Again made me keep thinking about her. Third date, tonight, same thing. Every time I have gone out with her she gets substantially more attractive and her perfume lingers on me. I have been on mutable dates with a couple other women that I find more attractive but they don't leave a lingering scent that leaves me in a bit of a daze. Thoughts? I am wondering about Pheromones VS perfume.
todreaminblue Posted November 21, 2013 Posted November 21, 2013 lol..... yep chloroform makes men weak ....... i notice how a guy smells, i have a good nose makes up for i see fuzzy people from five metres......perfum is soemthign that lingers when you have walked away.......a pleasant scent is a godo thign to leave behind i can think of worse things to leave behind...ahem ..i am really loopy today sorry..... i used to baby sit a friends baby when she returned home she sadi she knew when i had rocked her to sleep seh would put her cheek on my neck...........th ebub smelt lile chloe narcisse ....an oriental garden which is actually my signature perfume....whenever my friend would smell chloe narcisse in a shopping centre she would look for me........everybody has a certain smell that you know is them.......its good for when you are in a room absent of light.......you can find your loved one or bestie...or you go blind or are blindfolded and interrogated...ok hlghly unlikely.....i guess it coudl happen in a sci f i...smilin......enjoy the perfume you now associate with that girl..............deb
ebor Posted November 21, 2013 Posted November 21, 2013 I believe you smell perfumes, perfumes are universally accepted good scents. You like pheromones when they are associated to loved once, usually it's not the smell of pheromones you like it's the person associated with it.
Divasu Posted November 21, 2013 Posted November 21, 2013 women that smell good Why thank you. But, I agree with the premise. Each fragrance responds differently based on the person's body chemistry. So, not only are you smelling the fragrance, but you're also smelling her body chemistry secreting through the fragrance. 2
FitChick Posted November 21, 2013 Posted November 21, 2013 Find out the name of the perfume she wears and then at Christmas buy her a nice gift set of perfume, bath oil, lotion, etc. Department stores generally sell gift baskets at Christmas.
Phantom888 Posted November 21, 2013 Posted November 21, 2013 It's not just the perfume. It's perfume + her natural scent that you are crazy about. Different people wear perfume differently, and the same perfume can actually smell different on different people. I believe this is part of the "spark" or "chemistry" that we all seek. I find a woman that smells good to me very appealing. My woman's scent is intoxicating to me even when she is not wearing any perfume. I just love sniffing behind her neck/ears. 2
todreaminblue Posted November 21, 2013 Posted November 21, 2013 It's not just the perfume. It's perfume + her natural scent that you are crazy about. Different people wear perfume differently, and the same perfume can actually smell different on different people. I believe this is part of the "spark" or "chemistry" that we all seek. I find a woman that smells good to me very appealing. My woman's scent is intoxicating to me even when she is not wearing any perfume. I just love sniffing behind her neck/ears. my exes mother wore estee lauders white linen........because every other perfum she wore would smell like vanilla after a while to this day if i smell whit elinen...i get a really strong image of her warmth and loving nature around me.....i get this smile......i vague out...lol.............in memory bliss....smells to me are flashbacks...and reminders.....and yep have bad ones too......oen fo them is really rank body odor and the smell of alcohol.......beer...in particular...makes me gag soemtimes i am known to ovr do perfume because i forget i have put it on ...or one of my alter personalities has put some on and another puts on something different so i have a mixed scent...lol smells are reminders of people places and sights seen that have touched you.....i beleive thsi girl touches you for some reason.....and it isnt just her perfume.......but what is under the perfume that gives it that potency of a memory....deb
Author planb1973 Posted November 21, 2013 Author Posted November 21, 2013 Perfume plus her natural scent is what I was thinking. What got me realizing this is that I have been casually dating another woman for a while now whom I find much more physically attractive, but there has yet to be much chemistry and I don't notice any scent. The one with the good smell I have much more chemistry with. Interesting how our brains function without our minds. 2
antonio1149 Posted November 21, 2013 Posted November 21, 2013 perfumes are universally accepted good scents. Not for everyone. Lots of people are chemically sensitive, including me. I avoid "fragrance" or "perfume" in any products--soaps, shampoos, cleaning products, etc.--like the plague. I find a woman's natural scent much more appealing than some chemical (that's what perfume is). Some perfumes are so strong and offensive on a woman that I can't stand within five feet of her. So I think wearing any such product (for a man OR woman) is a big risk--kind of like dying your hair pink, thus limiting your dating pool to people who find pink hair a turn-on.
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