vhshowdown Posted December 27, 2004 Posted December 27, 2004 Ok, first off, I hope everyone had a nice Xmas!! I did, very cool. Now my question to anyone who may have been thru something similar: Have you ever met someone you really wanted to get to know, thought all went well, and you thought they were interested too, only to feel like you got blown off, so you never had a chance to get the phone number you wanted, and now all you have is where they work and a first name?!?!?! Do I dare try to track her down?? or is that stalking? Here is the story of this past weekend. Left out early early Thursday Dec 23 to the airport. Got in line to board the plane and started a conversation with the girl in front of me. Very pretty, and nice girl. Well, I never got to sit with her on the plane, I had to save some seats for the rest of my family. Ok, that sucked, but I did find out we were coming back Sunday Dec 26th on the same plane, what are the chances?!?!?! So, when Sunday came and we just got into the security line at the airport, she came out of no where, a row or 2 behind us. So, I let her cut in line up to us. So we talked pretty much the entire time. We finally got thru the security and had to put my shoes back on, and wait for my family, she goes, well I will see you at the gate....... WOW, was that a blow off or what?? So, got to the gate and stuff, we never really got close to each other to talk, but I swear, everytime I would look over at her, she would be looking at me. So being kinda bummed out, got totally drunk on the plane.... Then my bother told me not to worry about her. Well, we land and go get the luggage, my brother goes to get the car, turns out she was parked in the same spot, so I guess she asked where I was, & he tells her I was totally drunk, calls me up and tells me and puts her on the phone, and she says have a Happy New Year........ So needless to say, I have a terrible hangover right now, and I dont know if I should try to locate this woman or not?? Has anyone ever gone thru this, and if so, what did you do??
Barby Posted December 27, 2004 Posted December 27, 2004 First off..I LOVE that avatar..totally adorable! Second...did she tell you where she worked? Is it a place where anybody could show up (ie a restraunt or somewhere public)?? If so I say casually drop by, don't be too obvious but don't try to hard to have it look like a complete "wow fancy meeting you here" type of thing. See how she responds when you talk to her, be casual and if it feels right ask for her number, if she doesn't seem interested, leave it alone and move on. It isn't stalking if you try once..she never made it clear if she wanted to get to know you or not, but if she doesn't act interested and you keep pursuing her then yes that could be considered stalker behavior..
Author vhshowdown Posted December 27, 2004 Author Posted December 27, 2004 Thanks Barby, a friend of mine made that avatar. It is pretty cool. Now, she asked me what kinda work I do, so I asked her what she did. It really isnt anywhere public, so showing up there would be to see her only!! I would prefer not to do that, would prefer to run into her somewhere, but that isnt gonna happen unless i follow her, which that is stalking!! LOL So, I am deciding if I want to take that chance or not. After all, she did leave me at the security gate. I am kinda thinking that was a blow off, but I dont know for sure.... She may have a boyfriend, I dont know.... Had things gone to plan, I would know LOL I wanted to sit with her on the plane and I would have found all that out, but never really had a chance too.
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