dudemanner Posted November 21, 2013 Posted November 21, 2013 I figure this is a good place for my introduction. Well, I'm dudemanner, and I am into the third week of the end of my 18 year marrig. I'm hopeing im over the worst of it. Still get sucked in some, but ok for the most part. So, while I will vomit at the thought of dateing, I realize that I'm socially out of date. I'm lousey at starting conversation, all of it. Even my " look" is no good. So I figure I'll hang on a dateing message board and listen to what you all have to say. Not looking for dates, mainly just gab and possibly help some one out. Anyway, good evening.
M30USA Posted November 21, 2013 Posted November 21, 2013 You don't have to date. You can live your life according to your purpose and, if it's best, you'll meet a woman along the way. Dating is just a socially-constructed gameshow where people act fake and hide their true selves. 1
Author dudemanner Posted November 21, 2013 Author Posted November 21, 2013 Yup. And being alone appeals more and more. Peace and quiet.
dumped2013 Posted November 21, 2013 Posted November 21, 2013 Dude, I'm 2 months into my D, and I am actually starting to like being by myself. The thought of going out on a "date" scares the **** out of me. I have not been on a "date" in 20 years. A date now to me would be a woman coming over on a Saturday evening, watching football, and eating my home made chili. Don't know if I would be very successful with that although I make some killer chili. Just hang by yourself for a while. It really is not that bad. Hang with your friends and find yourself before you start dating.
Author dudemanner Posted November 21, 2013 Author Posted November 21, 2013 Ya, i'm in no mood. Gotta get mu $$ back up to. No sense dateing when you only got.$30.00 to your name.
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