Why is it so hard to let go, despite knowing they're never coming back?

[nevergoodenough]

It's hard to let go because you love her, it's only been two weeks and you are human. You say you are over it, but you're not. That is totally fine, I know people pressure you to get over things yesterday, but it doesn't happen like that. Get over it when you are ready to and it is okay to love that person and feel those emotions. Nobody knows what is going to happen in the future (not you or her) so you really can't say what will or won't happen. You know, there have been times when I didn't talk to my cousin for years. Yet I still love him because he means something to me. Understand that sometimes people say stuff out of anger, that doesn't mean she doesn't love you. I know I have spoken out of anger and said terrible things to people I love. Not everything is as black and white as you are making it out to be, just my .02. Give yourself time though