Why would she say this before she dumped me?

[Drewx2]

she said "you act like you're not interested" and then she told me she only wanted to be friends.

 

I don't understand...I told her how much I liked her & she's still rejecting me. How can I get her back without putting her on a pedestal? She had to like me, right? You don't just say that to someone you just want to be friends with.

[Phantom888]

Maybe she is not interested, but wants to blame you for ending the relationship? Some people don't want to own up to anything.

[Uwaae]

You post a lot here, I wonder if youre talking about the same girl, all this time

[crederer]

At the end of the day, it doesn't matter. She (assuming it's the same girl youve been talking about all this time) has made it pretty clear without being a straight up jerk about it, that she is not interested in you romantically.

 

Sorry man. Time to find someone else.

[heartshaped]

Anything a person says while breaking up with you is inconsequential. The point is she doesn't want to be with you. It hurts, yes, but it's best to move on and let go.

[phineas]

Don't be friends.

You don't want friends so being friends will just be a living hell for you.

[tlegend]

she said "you act like you're not interested" and then she told me she only wanted to be friends.

 

I don't understand...I told her how much I liked her & she's still rejecting me. How can I get her back without putting her on a pedestal? She had to like me, right? You don't just say that to someone you just want to be friends with.

 

This is a question you must really ask yourself without answering for a few months.

 

Are you the guy you want to be?

 

Were you the guy she was looking for?

 

These 2 questions alone, taken at face value, really don't mean much. But if you allow yourself to truly mull these questions over, you may find some closure with her decision.

[Kate9292]

Either she didn't feel desired or courted by you or she's just making stuff up on the spot.