jen_r Posted November 20, 2013 Posted November 20, 2013 I've been dating this guy for a little over 3 months. He has been on tour for the past 2 months though, so, a lot of our communication has been through text and phone. He's coming home this weekend and I'm going to his show on Friday in the next state over and I've rented a hotel so we can hang out after the show and drive back home together the next morn. I'm super psyched to see him, but, some things about him are making me feel "eh" about it all. I constantly ask him what he's up to, where he's playing that night, how his show went etc. He neverrr asks me about my day or what I'm doing. Like, tonight, I just told him I had a ***** day at work and his reply was "I wish I could make you feel better, but at least you can look forward to this weekend." Lol, wouldn't you want to know WHY I had a ***** day at work??? Does this mean anything? Or am I just reading into it too much? Just he just not want to pry?
Uwaae Posted November 20, 2013 Posted November 20, 2013 I personally dont know what to say. Dont meet him, Go NC
Author jen_r Posted November 20, 2013 Author Posted November 20, 2013 I personally dont know what to say. Dont meet him, Go NC Non-refundable hotel. lol I'm deff going.
crederer Posted November 20, 2013 Posted November 20, 2013 Based on the info provided, it sounds like you may be overthinking it. However, I used to be a musician, I had a girlfriend in all territories. Not saying this is what's happening, just saying young musicians are like young athletes. They have women all over the place and when passing through......do I really need to elaborate further? I got to an age where I realized that's not what I wanted, but it wasn't until I was in my mid 20's to realize that. Again, not saying this is your situation, but the vast majority of musicians I toured with did the same thing.
d0nnivain Posted November 20, 2013 Posted November 20, 2013 It may never have dawned on him. You'd be shocked at what some women think is expected -- asking how your day was -- & how many men never even thought about it. The next time you're together gently mention it.
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