istabaci Posted November 20, 2013 Posted November 20, 2013 So i was posting something about my ex gf, but my question now is: Is it good or bad idea to tell her friend to ask her what she thinks about us trying again? ( as if she just want to know, not that i am asking or anything) to know, before i gonna ask for real. I know its kind of childish question, but still ..
ks0985 Posted November 20, 2013 Posted November 20, 2013 no....no.....no do not try that never works out well 2
organizedchaos Posted November 20, 2013 Posted November 20, 2013 So i was posting something about my ex gf, but my question now is: Is it good or bad idea to tell her friend to ask her what she thinks about us trying again? ( as if she just want to know, not that i am asking or anything) to know, before i gonna ask for real. I know its kind of childish question, but still .. Don't do it.
J21 Posted November 20, 2013 Posted November 20, 2013 Bad idea. If your ex's friend doesn't tell your ex about you asking (which is unlikely-she's your ex's friend not yours), your ex will feel like she was slighted or betrayed by her friend. If your ex's friend tells your ex about you asking (which is more likely), your ex will want to know what was said, how it was said, when it was said and what the friend told you. It will be dissected into a million pieces and the friend will now have to give input about the relationship. Also, the friend may now be unofficial liaison between you two whether she was willing or not. "Next time he asks, say XXX". The ex will also know you had hesitation because you weren't sure and had to ask her friend (should you decide to try again at the relationship). She will also be curious why you couldn't be mature enough to come to her directly. As you can see, neither scenario puts the friend in a better situation than if they were never involved in the first place. If you want to try again, consult with your friends, family, or ppl here on LS. Then go directly to your ex gf if you want to give it another go.
Simon Phoenix Posted November 20, 2013 Posted November 20, 2013 In all seriousness, it's never a good thing to get other people involved.
reddragon588 Posted November 20, 2013 Posted November 20, 2013 Your exes friend doesn't care and this will only serve to make you look foolish. Don't involve others who have no business in it.
barky2 Posted November 20, 2013 Posted November 20, 2013 Comes off clingy and women like, think about it. No man with a backbone would do such a thing. Regrow your backbone. Mean that in the nicest way possible. Barky 2
Simplysimon Posted November 20, 2013 Posted November 20, 2013 So i was posting something about my ex gf, but my question now is: Is it good or bad idea to tell her friend to ask her what she thinks about us trying again? ( as if she just want to know, not that i am asking or anything) to know, before i gonna ask for real. I know its kind of childish question, but still .. Stop this....stop it now. It's any excuse to contact her..there are a million women out there hotter than her and better for you. My gf destroyed me, emotionally and financially, cut them dead. I met a new girl 3 weeks later. She's hotter sexier and more affectionate...get back in the game, dating sites, bars anything. Stop this dependency, she's not the only girl who can make you happy. Contacting her will make it worse....please please believe us..don't... Who the hell is she to control your emotions....you control them...man up and forget her 1
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