clia Posted November 20, 2013 Posted November 20, 2013 I didn't realize you've been with him for three years. I agree that after three years it shouldn't matter who texts who first. Out of curiosity, why are you trying to implement these changes now? 1
Author BlessYourCottonSocks Posted November 20, 2013 Author Posted November 20, 2013 I didn't realize you've been with him for three years. I agree that after three years it shouldn't matter who texts who first. Out of curiosity, why are you trying to implement these changes now? I've been trying to implement these changes for awhile, but it hasn't stuck. I recognize my insecurity and dependency on him. I don't want to be like that. And I feel like it could/would push him away eventually.
StanMusial Posted November 21, 2013 Posted November 21, 2013 You took the words out of my mouth. If you have to put on an act or follow steps to keep a guy's interest, then he isn't worth it anyway. Look for someone who: - likes you the way you are - wants the same things you want out of a relationship Then you don't have to play the games. There's no winning in trying to trick or force someone to love you. In my experience, all the rules, books, guidelines, etc. goes straight out the window when a girl likes a guy. It's all good in theory and I guess it's entertaining to discuss in online forums. And somebody out there is making a lot of money LOL. And around and around we go. 2
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