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How to ask her out for the third date?


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So I started seeing this person - she's pretty nice.

 

She told me that her last relationship didn't end so well and she is hesitant about starting another one so fast. She wants to take it slow. I told her then that I just want to make sure we are more than friends and that what we are doing are dating. At the end of the second date I told her - by mistake probably - that she should not feel it awkward to discuss things with me, including ending it if she doesn't feel like it. I didn't want her to be dragged around pressured - but I realize it wasn't necessary. Bleh.

 

It's funny because in the beginning she initiated the texts and stuff. Now I am the one asking her out - since it's the beginning stage I guess it's fine but at some point it should be more reciprocal.

 

That's where my question comes from. I did ask her last week if she's free this week. I am guessing not seeing for longer than a week would not be conducive to making further progress.

 

Do I simply ask her out on text again? Or maybe since I have only texted her so far I should call her and see if she's free? Oh this idea just came up. I like it.

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Sure why dont you call her. Keep in mind that you dont need this girl in your life, if she's fun, hang out with her and have fun, if she's not a fun chick, why bother?

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Calling is so much more personal than texting.

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