Author DLM77 Posted November 21, 2013 Author Posted November 21, 2013 Im thinking your gf is really not happy you told her you want to screw another woman in front of her. I would dump a guy for that. If I didnt go that far, Id never feel quite the same towards him again- less respect and security. Still thats no excuse for her behavior. I would be embarassed too. I don't believe that is the case. I mentioned the fantasy over two years ago. Not once did I ever askher to have a threesome. I simply said it was my fantasy. In fact since I brought it up she has mentioned it way more times than me. She makes comments like "if I ever get with a girl she has to have a hot body" ect... As far as using the conversation to embarrass me at dinner, I doubt it was intentional. Reason I say this is because I rarely rarely mention it as I said above. If I out pressure on her to have one I could understand being spiteful and intentionally trying to embarrass me. Also I said I didn't want to be with the other female, just want to watch them.
nittygritty Posted November 21, 2013 Posted November 21, 2013 I don't believe that is the case. I mentioned the fantasy over two years ago. Not once did I ever askher to have a threesome. I simply said it was my fantasy. In fact since I brought it up she has mentioned it way more times than me. She makes comments like "if I ever get with a girl she has to have a hot body" ect... As far as using the conversation to embarrass me at dinner, I doubt it was intentional. Reason I say this is because I rarely rarely mention it as I said above. If I out pressure on her to have one I could understand being spiteful and intentionally trying to embarrass me. Also I said I didn't want to be with the other female, just want to watch them. If your girlfriend told you that her fantasy was to have a threesome with you and another man and that she didn't want to be with the other man, just wanted to watch you have sex with another man. Would you feel like she didn't have any respect for you or the relationship at all? That is not exactly a classy, romantic thing to say to someone. It's also possible that she is the type of person that would have a threesome with you and another woman but is that really someone that you can see yourself having a long term love relationship with?
runningfar Posted November 21, 2013 Posted November 21, 2013 Im thinking your gf is really not happy you told her you want to screw another woman in front of her. I would dump a guy for that. If I didnt go that far, Id never feel quite the same towards him again- less respect and security.. Personally I want my man to tell me his fantasies - whether or not we end up acting on them might be different, but I certainly wouldn't want him to keep it to himself. It's part of being open. But, I certainly wouldn't advertise private thoughts to others 1
nittygritty Posted November 21, 2013 Posted November 21, 2013 Personally I want my man to tell me his fantasies - whether or not we end up acting on them might be different, but I certainly wouldn't want him to keep it to himself. It's part of being open. But, I certainly wouldn't advertise private thoughts to others At least that way you get to decide whether or not you want to stay in a relationship with that person anymore or not.
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