greenfairie Posted November 20, 2013 Posted November 20, 2013 I'm wondering if any of you guys still love your ex even if you guys ended on bad terms. I find myself thinking about my ex every single day and I wonder if he thinks about me too. 3
AllTooWell Posted November 20, 2013 Posted November 20, 2013 Ended on crap terms, then he attempted to win me back and screwed up big time. I have had him blocked since. I know he thinks about me. Maybe not daily, but I'm sure I occasionally cross his mind. We meant a lot to each other at one point - even if we are broken up, at one point, we were happy and we have a lot of memories together. I think about him every day in varying degrees. Most recently, I think about how I don't think about him. When I wake up he isn't the first thing that comes to mind and by the time he does cross my mind I think "wow, I'm forgetting him." and that is what makes me sad, more than anything. Forgetting. Rambling on here 6
Pa76 Posted November 20, 2013 Posted November 20, 2013 Sure i think about him...hoping he knows what he missed out on and how bad he screwed up from being an idiot. He said he has stayed friends with all exes (found this out after we broke up...he hid this). So let it burn that i don't want to ever speak to the butt who wasted time in my life. Live and learn
Vinsanity1307 Posted November 20, 2013 Posted November 20, 2013 It has been 4 months since my ex left me out of the blue for no reason.....Possibly GIGs..She got a new job and it happened. I still very much love her and still think of her alot..She was 9 years older than me with kids we were together for 5 years..(3 in which she was jobless).It sucks..I feel she doesnt even have a second thought of me but yes I do still love her and think of her...
Agent Orange Posted November 20, 2013 Posted November 20, 2013 (edited) All the time. He and I haven't been broken up that long but it didn't end on good terms. Most of the time I have to resist the urge to contact him. The test of the time I wonder if he's thinking about/missing me as much as I do him. Edited November 20, 2013 by Agent Orange
Armyguy123 Posted November 20, 2013 Posted November 20, 2013 Every single day. She was support and my girl to lean onto when my career as an Army officer got tough. Now I am very lonely and have to lean to my inner strength to get by. I've starting smoking and drinking caffeine heavily to get through things. (finally realized why so many soldiers abuse caffeine, alcohol, cigarettes, and dip) I thank god everyday I am not deployed because I don't think I'd have the strength to get through it without having her to come home to. But I am a soldier and you have to keep moving forward, even when the sh*t gets tough. 4
chris21422 Posted November 20, 2013 Posted November 20, 2013 Yes we all do.. Missing her everyday hoping she missing me too. lol
J21 Posted November 20, 2013 Posted November 20, 2013 I ended on relatively good terms and I think about her/miss her a lot.
theonlyjuan Posted November 20, 2013 Posted November 20, 2013 Now and then. I think about all my past girlfriends at some point. Anyone who says they never think about their ex is a liar!
Pa76 Posted November 20, 2013 Posted November 20, 2013 Yes. Find morning and right now when we use to text good night hard. Do not want to get down cause earlier I was feeling he is an ass yes I will get over him and fk him. Thinking of everything we would of been broken up at some point so I find it ridiculous to be missing him but I am human. I don't know anyone here and missing having someone here. 1
ByMyself01 Posted November 20, 2013 Posted November 20, 2013 Every single day. It hurts the most when I wake up in the morning thinking of him. It just reminds me that I have to pull through another day of not talking to him. 1
Author greenfairie Posted November 20, 2013 Author Posted November 20, 2013 Every single day. She was support and my girl to lean onto when my career as an Army officer got tough. Now I am very lonely and have to lean to my inner strength to get by. I've starting smoking and drinking caffeine heavily to get through things. (finally realized why so many soldiers abuse caffeine, alcohol, cigarettes, and dip) I thank god everyday I am not deployed because I don't think I'd have the strength to get through it without having her to come home to. But I am a soldier and you have to keep moving forward, even when the sh*t gets tough. I, too, had some vices after the breakup like smoking and drinking caffeine heavily. I still have to remind myself to get through my weak moments. The pain comes and ebbs.
Author greenfairie Posted November 20, 2013 Author Posted November 20, 2013 Yes. Find morning and right now when we use to text good night hard. Do not want to get down cause earlier I was feeling he is an ass yes I will get over him and fk him. Thinking of everything we would of been broken up at some point so I find it ridiculous to be missing him but I am human. I don't know anyone here and missing having someone here. You're not alone. I miss my ex as well. But it's for the best to have no contact. It sucks, it feels like a death. 1
witmadskilllz Posted November 20, 2013 Posted November 20, 2013 i think it depends on different scenarios not by ending or bad/good terms. My ex rebounded and found someone better afterwards, and even if things don't go well their way, he is a lot better and so she'll be missing him more instead if anything. I'm long gone already. Do I still think of her though? Yes of course, but it gets better each day and soon, I'll find someone whom I'll spend the rest of my life with : ) 2
Phoe Posted November 20, 2013 Posted November 20, 2013 He's not my ex, but he's a man I fell for. I miss him every day. 1
Simon Phoenix Posted November 20, 2013 Posted November 20, 2013 Most days, but not every day. And when I do, it usually passes pretty quickly. I never wonder if she's thinking about me.
HorseLuck Posted November 20, 2013 Posted November 20, 2013 First thing in the morning, last thing at night. Those are the hardest, most annoying moments of the day. I wonder if he hates me now or still yearns for me. 4
melell Posted November 20, 2013 Posted November 20, 2013 From about 5 months past breakup I have barely thought of my ex, and when I do it is never with emotion. It is always fleeting, and honestly it hurts about as much as thinking about my grocery list hurts. It is crazy what time can do. We were together from 18-26. My entire adult life, and it now it is like a distant memory. 3
Simplysimon Posted November 20, 2013 Posted November 20, 2013 I, too, had some vices after the breakup like smoking and drinking caffeine heavily. I still have to remind myself to get through my weak moments. Dwelling on the past never helps. It only brings back sadness and drags you down. I try to block the thoughts and push them away. Love can be so good and yet so cruel. For those who are going through it now, your not alone .... 1
Author greenfairie Posted November 20, 2013 Author Posted November 20, 2013 From about 5 months past breakup I have barely thought of my ex, and when I do it is never with emotion. It is always fleeting, and honestly it hurts about as much as thinking about my grocery list hurts. It is crazy what time can do. We were together from 18-26. My entire adult life, and it now it is like a distant memory. Really? That surprises me how quick you've moved but that's awesome. Honestly, freaks me out too because I want my ex to think about me but that's dumb. I was with him from the time I was 14 until I was 20. That was so hard to let go. It comes and goes in different forms. It can be a fleeting feeling, or some kind of emotion that'll consume me for a little bit, it depends on where I am in life I guess. 1
Author greenfairie Posted November 20, 2013 Author Posted November 20, 2013 First thing in the morning, last thing at night. Those are the hardest, most annoying moments of the day. I wonder if he hates me now or still yearns for me. I know the feeling. I wonder the same, but then I can't dwell too much on it. What good would it do for us if we knew they hated us or yearned for us? Would they really do anything if we knew how they felt??? It kind of sucks because I feel like the no contact just drives us crazy to the constant pondering of "Is he thinking about me?" "I wonder if something reminded him of me today." "I wonder if he's missing my cuddles right now. I sure miss his cuddles." & other **** like that. It just sucks that we gotta pick up and move forward…. 1
melell Posted November 20, 2013 Posted November 20, 2013 Really? That surprises me how quick you've moved but that's awesome. Honestly, freaks me out too because I want my ex to think about me but that's dumb. I was with him from the time I was 14 until I was 20. That was so hard to let go. It comes and goes in different forms. It can be a fleeting feeling, or some kind of emotion that'll consume me for a little bit, it depends on where I am in life I guess. I really think that once the thoughts start easing up (especially if you try to avoid thinking about it) it is like 'oh, this does get better' and once you realize that it will get better things keep improving and pretty fast. How long have you been apart? I can honestly say the first 3 months for me were hell, but I have done everything possible to move myself away from the past and not dwell on it. 2
Author greenfairie Posted November 20, 2013 Author Posted November 20, 2013 I really think that once the thoughts start easing up (especially if you try to avoid thinking about it) it is like 'oh, this does get better' and once you realize that it will get better things keep improving and pretty fast. How long have you been apart? I can honestly say the first 3 months for me were hell, but I have done everything possible to move myself away from the past and not dwell on it. Yeah, I have noticed that. I was a lot worse a few months ago and today, I know I'm in better spirits than I was. Well we have a very tight group of friends that we have grown up with so we are bound to run into each other now and then. I hear things about him from mutual friends and I am sure he hears about me too because that's how my group of friends are. It sucks but I feel like I have to face the music if I wanna hang out with my friends. I last saw him about five months ago but he texted me a couple of months ago. That was the last of anything.
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