AKisBaked Posted November 19, 2013 Posted November 19, 2013 Wow I haven't posted a thread up in months.. anyways good to be back! This topic has nothing to do with me or my relationship, but it has to deal with a good friend of mine. I was just curious why she would do this so I gave her my 2 cents on the situation but its really up to her meh. So she texted me that she emailed her ex again to see "how he is doing.." (WTF?) and she said she emailed him back in April but he never responded.. So I told her, why are you even bothering to email him back to see what's up with him, if you two haven't talked in so long? And I said it's not fair for her current bf right now, and how if he found out u were contacting your ex again... She said he doesn't care... Then she mentions that he was a big part of her life for the past 3 years... I though that was a very poor reason for her to contact her ex. I dunno why she would and I dunno why she is so curious in knowing how he's doing in the first place. I care because I know her current boyfriend and he's a very good person and I don't want my friend to end up doing something stupid that may hurt him because of her lack of judgement. So.. Do you think on her end it's a right /wrong decision to contact her ex again and do you think it's fair for her current bf? Let me know!
soccerrprp Posted November 19, 2013 Posted November 19, 2013 You are right. Unless there is a compelling reason for one to remain in contact with an ex, like, a child, business, or perhaps maintained a platonic friendship (iffy...) etc. there's no reason to stir up the past that has been dormant.
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