DistortedFlames Posted November 19, 2013 Posted November 19, 2013 Alright, so I started dating my ex two weeks ago. We seemed to like each other a lot, but after seven days, she continuously started fights with me over stupid crap. Girls obsess over me on social media and I used to reply to them politely, but that offended her. She had my password and saw everything I was getting and sending out. Last weekend, we hung out and I made a joke about a sensitive topic and she hit me across the head. Her ex broke up with her because of that and I reminded her of it and she started crying. She never showed any emotion for me whatsoever. It was always me initiating the making out sessions (as stupid as it sounds) and all. I left after she hit me and then she found me, begged me to stay, and I did. I get home and she tells me she loves me and says she needs time to get her mind back on track. I tell her that's fine but say that she can't blame me if I move on. I never really cared THAT much for her, but I did like her a bit. We fought again last night and I felt bad for "putting her in a downward spiral." I need help coping with the fact that I can never speak to her again in my life. She's gone. Permanently. How do I deal with this? Thanks.
Mariposa10 Posted November 19, 2013 Posted November 19, 2013 WHAT???!!! why did you give her your password?! (SOMETHING I WILL NEVER UNDERSTAND WHY PEOPLE DO THIS) AND SHE HIT YOU?? RUN LIKE THE WIND, THIS GIRL IS CRAZY!! You just dodged the bullet. I'm serious, block her. How old are you two??! 2
Frank13 Posted November 19, 2013 Posted November 19, 2013 Last weekend, we hung out and I made a joke about a sensitive topic and she hit me across the head. Her ex broke up with her because of that and I reminded her of it and she started crying. I left after she hit me I never hit a woman before, but if one ever put herself in a man's position by hitting me, I would hit her back and she would never strike another person again.
Frank13 Posted November 19, 2013 Posted November 19, 2013 WHAT???!!! why did you give her your password?! (SOMETHING I WILL NEVER UNDERSTAND WHY PEOPLE DO THIS) They do this to show transparency and that they have nothing to hide.
Mariposa10 Posted November 19, 2013 Posted November 19, 2013 They do this to show transparency and that they have nothing to hide. If they're gonna be suspicious about their partner, they might as well break up. Why be in a relationship where you're too paranoid that you need to check their Facebook? 1
Frank13 Posted November 21, 2013 Posted November 21, 2013 If they're gonna be suspicious about their partner, they might as well break up. Why be in a relationship where you're too paranoid that you need to check their Facebook? If you are going to be too paranoid about your partner finding out something you are hiding by giving your password, yiu may as well break up. Why be in a relationhip where your partner wants to keep your head in the sand? 1
Reels Posted November 21, 2013 Posted November 21, 2013 She don't trust on you, thus it's not long term relation already.
Stay Posted November 21, 2013 Posted November 21, 2013 How old are you? It sounds like a very young and immature relationship. Avoid if possible. If you're old, avoid either way!
HorseLuck Posted November 21, 2013 Posted November 21, 2013 (edited) You weren't in the wrong, but you mention not caring for her that much. Why the second chance? Put that not caring into effect now. If she has a downward spiral it's something she needs to work on climbing out of herself..you can't really fight her battles for her. Maybe this break-up will push her to seek help.. it sounds like some therapy would benefit her. Remind yourself of her negative traits whenever you start to feel bad. Controlling, potential to be physically abusive, envious. It would have led to your own spiral and the relationship would have fizzled again. Keep your self occupied with activities and a social life. It helps to prevent your mind from putting too much emphasis on thoughts of her. Edited November 21, 2013 by HorseLuck 1
Mariposa10 Posted November 21, 2013 Posted November 21, 2013 If you are going to be too paranoid about your partner finding out something you are hiding by giving your password, yiu may as well break up. Why be in a relationhip where your partner wants to keep your head in the sand? It's my password, it's my Facebook! why does everybody have to know my password?! Thank goodness, I have never had such an insure boyfriend. I HATE, when I see my friend's girlfriend/boyfriend using their Facebook. Oh my god, it's so annoying and childish. 1
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