Grendelsmom Posted November 19, 2013 Posted November 19, 2013 (edited) My boyfriend and i had been going through a rough patch recently, i was the one who was confused. He asked me if he could talk to my friend with whom he gets along really well. he said he needed some comforting and my friend was good at that. At that point i was feeling guilty of upsetting him and i let him talk to my friend. Soon i came to know that SHE is the one who has been calling him up quite frequently and chatting him up and making plans to meet up with him. i expressed my displeasure on two different occasions saying that the whole thing is too weird for me and it would be nice if he stopped entertaining her. My bf and i resolved all our problems and decided to give the relationship a fresh start. a few days ago i learnt that he met her again, and he kept this from me thinking i might get upset. i am livid and confused whether i should give him a chance again because it has dented my trust and somehow i feel i cannot trust him again. he maintains it was innocent and has no feelings for her whatsoever but the fact that he hid it from me makes me insecure. what do you guys think? plus this girl and i had a tiff over an unrelated issue and she refuses to pick up my calls or answer my texts. but she calls up my boyfriend whom she met through me... i dont know whom to kill first! Edited November 19, 2013 by Grendelsmom forgot a detail
d0nnivain Posted November 19, 2013 Posted November 19, 2013 She doesn't sound like much of a friend & I think you are right to be concerned about their relationship, especially when they keep things secret from you. 1
Kizmet Fisher Posted November 19, 2013 Posted November 19, 2013 My boyfriend and i had been going through a rough patch recently, i was the one who was confused. He asked me if he could talk to my friend with whom he gets along really well. he said he needed some comforting and my friend was good at that. At that point i was feeling guilty of upsetting him and i let him talk to my friend. Soon i came to know that SHE is the one who has been calling him up quite frequently and chatting him up and making plans to meet up with him. i expressed my displeasure on two different occasions saying that the whole thing is too weird for me and it would be nice if he stopped entertaining her. My bf and i resolved all our problems and decided to give the relationship a fresh start. a few days ago i learnt that he met her again, and he kept this from me thinking i might get upset. i am livid and confused whether i should give him a chance again because it has dented my trust and somehow i feel i cannot trust him again. he maintains it was innocent and has no feelings for her whatsoever but the fact that he hid it from me makes me insecure. what do you guys think? plus this girl and i had a tiff over an unrelated issue and she refuses to pick up my calls or answer my texts. but she calls up my boyfriend whom she met through me... i dont know whom to kill first! You're being taken for a ride OP. If he really had no feelings for her whatsoever, why would he continue to interact with her knowing that this was a big issue for you? Don't waste anymore time with a guy like this.
Author Grendelsmom Posted November 21, 2013 Author Posted November 21, 2013 thank you guys!... and im 23 lol..
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