lonegirl Posted November 19, 2013 Posted November 19, 2013 ...confused, with my heart and mind in pieces, etc. Will try to be short as the story is so complicated i don't even know how to start. Not so long relationship, with a lot of small issues, but we are totally compatible. I mean, everything. We like the same things, lifestyle, food, music, hobbies. We use to say we are almost the same person in different genders. Fell in love with him pretty fast. Told him this all the time, without pressure from my side. Both left bad relationships. Problem is, his trust issues and self confidence. He attaches on me behaviors he thinks i will have for fear. I don't know if he loves me as he never told me. He tells me he likes me a lot, a lot. All i catch sometimes is he quietly watching me for a long time with a sad look in his eyes. I cried. We broke up and tried the friend thing, the tension is huge as we can't be apart. The sex is magic and we can't close our eyes while doing it. Can feel i made real love with him all the times we did it. I asked him why all this. He said "i don't know how to be with a girl and want to protect you from me." Still, we slept together again. He kissed me dearly. Brought me a gift... Still said he's scared. I'm so sad. I love him. I care. He's my best friend. Didn't want to break up. I didn't. It's a big vent because... I don't know why he needs to look at me with so much passion, and still wants to be apart when we could just try more? I asked so much if he was lying and i was just an affair, but i can't be that dumb to not notice the sadness in his eyes when i said i needed to know to move on. I'm so sad and confused to lose such a great thing i was having.
Pa76 Posted November 19, 2013 Posted November 19, 2013 He is bringing his past into present. My recent ex did that and he dumped me. I was in love but he wasn't cause of his last ex. I feel guy you are with should be single to work on his issues. Isn't fair to you.
barky2 Posted November 19, 2013 Posted November 19, 2013 You need to give this dude time to work on himself, as well yourself. His issues won't go away over night, but if you love him, you'll leave him be. He'll be in contact when he's ready. But right now you'll continue to get hurt. Stay strong, hang in there. Barky
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