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So I've been casually seeing this guy the last couple months. I have an apartment on campus (we're both in our early 20's, ready to graduate in a couple semesters). He doesn't have his own place so he would be here a lot. Since he transferred last year, he doesn't have a car right now either. I've been pretty patient and nice to him, there have been a couple of occasions where he said he wanted me to be his girlfriend but i wasn't sure if I could take him seriously because he's a young guy in a fraternity and doesn't have much to offer me and doesn't seem to be taken seriously.

 

So we got into an argument this past weekend because he told me he had hookedup with this girl the first week or two we started hooking up/hanging out and I was mad because I have this guy staying over here utilizing my resources and stuff and he did that. I know it wasn't completely wrong because we weren't technically bf/gf but it made me trust him less.

 

Now he is all up in the air about what he wants and he said I was "wife material" and he wished he was more mature and had met me at a later date. Although we have class together once a week for the next 2 semesters, I told him I did not want to be friends. Just a week ago he was talking about how I make him ridiculously happy and how he wanted me to be his gf, now he doesn't know what he wants. I am irritated and I told him I didn't want to talk to him at all (we aren't working on anything together in a group in class, so there is no need to) and he was like "well what if i grow up and i want to talk to you next semester." I told him too bad, I was getting tired of the back and forth and getting d*cked around and I'm a great girl and if he thinks I'm so fantastic then he's going to lose me for good, and I will not speak to him again. He didn't like me saying that and wants to be "friends" - assuming so that he can come back to me when he wants.

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I told him too bad, I was getting tired of the back and forth and getting d*cked around and I'm a great girl and if he thinks I'm so fantastic then he's going to lose me for good, and I will not speak to him again.

 

You go girl! :bunny:

 

Life is too short to waste it on such hot and cold dbags.

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