planb1973 Posted November 19, 2013 Posted November 19, 2013 So my sister in law calls me to go out with her and a couple of her friends from work that she wants to hook up with me. I get there and one of them is quite attractive funny and friendly. She kept chatting it up with me and always seemed to find me when I was moving about the bar or out on the patio. As women do they would all disappear to the bathroom as a group and inevitably after one would ask me what I thought about so and so. I would reply that I thought she was good looking and fun to be around and I'm interested. Ha then another group trip to the bathroom for the ladies So at the end of the night I walk her out to her car and ask for her # so we can go out. She very enthusiastically gives me her # and I tell her I will call her tomorrow. I went in for a kiss and she kind of jumped back from it but then kissed me back. I call the next day, like I said I would, and leave a message. That was 2 days ago. Nothing, no return call, nothing. I don't get it. She was really into me and drilling her girlfriends for info on me and what I thought, but then cant even return my call. I guess somehow I struck out.
Woop1337 Posted November 19, 2013 Posted November 19, 2013 Why would you kiss a stranger? It was in the bag, but you messed it up by going in for the kiss. Too bad, it's over.
Author planb1973 Posted November 19, 2013 Author Posted November 19, 2013 Ya. As soon as I went for the kiss I regretted it. Walked away feeling a bit stupid. Damn booze thinking. lesson learned on to the next.
Kate9292 Posted November 19, 2013 Posted November 19, 2013 You probably killed it with that awkward kiss.
Author planb1973 Posted November 19, 2013 Author Posted November 19, 2013 I sent my sister in law a message yesterday stating that I must have f**d up since her friend never returned my call. Her response, they work together, "oh no you did'nt, just be patient" WTF! No return call after 2 days is a pretty clear message to me. They work together and my sister in law certainly likes to gossip so I know she has insider information. Balls in her court, I am not they type of guy to call again. Though I do feel like apologizing for being an A**
sabre80 Posted November 19, 2013 Posted November 19, 2013 Probably playing one of those you have to wait x amount of days to not look so desperate games.
SoaringPhenix Posted November 19, 2013 Posted November 19, 2013 Probably playing one of those you have to wait x amount of days to not look so desperate games. I agree what your SIL said is pretty clear cut. She is playing those stupid dating etiquette games.
CptSaveAho Posted November 19, 2013 Posted November 19, 2013 did you not understand what your sister said? "be patient" you look like a needy idiot, which your actions on this forum reflect... oh no a girl you met once and kissed hasnt called you back in 2 days... sadly to say you REEK of desperation if she has any social intuition (which most women do) she sees this as well... date other people
Author planb1973 Posted November 19, 2013 Author Posted November 19, 2013 CptSaveAho. I might feel like an A** sometimes but you are an A** all the time. Your name states it all.
CptSaveAho Posted November 19, 2013 Posted November 19, 2013 truth hurts doesnt it? now fix it.... this is something people learn in their 20s not 40s call a girl, she answers you ask her out.. if she doesnt you move on and ask another girl out... not come to a dating forum and post WOW she hasnt called me back and its been 2 days...
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