Has anyone actaully left someone they loved, but knows it will never work?

[smile95]

A lot is wrong with thte way he treats me. I want simple things from him. He is going thru a divorce and works like crazy, so that does not helo. Bur we are a million miles away and a phone call is all I ask for. Iwould like for him to ask about my day, ask me how a dr appt went, ask me why Ia m down, ask how my family is when he knows they are in the hopsital, ask me simple things and take interest in me. Is this a lot to ask??? be honest. I want so much to be happy, but it is hard to hang on now. Even today, he called at 7am on his way to work and I did not answer since I was asleep and then he text me something smart, ;ike "oh there must be a man in your bed". I called when i got up and he has ignored me all day. I am so tired of the games he plays. It breaks my heart. I know that this is not going to work, but somehow I still have a hard time letting go. He can be very nice and sweet. But usually only when we are together and that is not often. SO SAD today. He will not even call me back. AND I DID NOTHING WRONG!MEN!

[amerikajin]

Dating someone who's going through a divorce is hazardous. People tend to have a warped idea of relationships during the divorce process and even for a while afterwards. He might be a decent guy, but he might not be prepared to give you what you want right now.

[smile95]

maybe you are right. I have to walk away for now. Especially if I am not happy anymore. thanks