Drewx2 Posted November 18, 2013 Posted November 18, 2013 (edited) Long story short we had been seeing each other for a little over a month and she dumped me before our 4th date. She told me that she was only interested in pursing a friendship. I talked to her off and on for a couple months after the fact. I realized that our “friendship” was one sided and pointless for me so I stopped initiating. Then after three months of silence, she sent me a message out of the blue saying that she wanted to be on good terms and to let her know if I'm ever in town. I texted her "We're on bad terms?" and she replied "no not at all" What should my next move be? Should I call her out?... "Why do you want do you want to be on good terms if we're already there?" any other suggestions? Should I just not respond? Keep in mind I'm not really interested in a friendship. It's the reason I stopped talking in the first place. Thanks! Edited November 18, 2013 by Drewx2
d0nnivain Posted November 18, 2013 Posted November 18, 2013 She seems to genuinely want a friendship -- talk a lot, see each other etc. but with no romance. If that is not what you want, you don't have to settle for half a loaf. If you are OK with being friendly, I'd send a nice text every so often when the mood hits For example if you are in the US, next Wednesday or Thursday you can send a quick Happy Thanksgiving . . . . nothing more.
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