scone Posted November 18, 2013 Posted November 18, 2013 Hello All, I never thought I would be on a forum discussing my feelings in such an open way, but I feel like this may help me a little. I'm sure my situation is not unique, but I have never ever dealt with something like this in my life. I am currently a sophomore in college and it has now been a month since I broke up with my girlfriend of one year. We started dating at the end of high school and went to colleges 2 hours apart but would see each other on most weekends and over breaks. Before we dated, I wanted to be with her so badly and she did not want me. However, over the past year, I have initiated the breakup multiple times and always come crawling back. My friends do not like us together, which played a major role in our splits, and I ultimately do not see a future with this girl. However, she has done nothing wrong in the relationship. She has loved me with all her heart and I have been downright awful at times. I seem to want what I can't have! I had been doing fine over the past month, but now I am starting to once again regret my decision. I am worried that I will never find another girl who loved me like she did. I dream about her at night and often feel sick to my stomach. The worst part is, I cannot really talk to my friends about her anymore because they are so sick and tired of our mess. I know I need to move on, but I just cannot seem to do it. I have never felt pain like I do after breakups with this girl... probably because I have never loved another girl. Please Help!
Shaine Posted November 18, 2013 Posted November 18, 2013 I have just been dumped by my bf and it hurts so much. Right now, i would like to say to you to get back with your ex gf so you can heal her pain and make her happy again. But i dont think im in the right mind to advice that to you. Men are so cruel sometimes.
Crila16 Posted November 18, 2013 Posted November 18, 2013 It seems you like this girl more than you care to admit to. You're so worried about what your friends think...why? That's not wise. It's what you and she think. As for her not being the one? What is your definition of the one? How do you know she's not the one? Have you ever had the one to compare? If you can't be without someone, they love you, make you happy...isn't that what the one is supposed to be? Sad when they're not there....happy when they are? Don't cut off your nose to spite your face, just to appease your friends. Tell them to get girlfriends and then they can talk. You have a nice girl, don't go screwing it up without a good reason.
seekingpeaceinlove Posted November 18, 2013 Posted November 18, 2013 Leave your ex be. Stop playing with her emotions. Clearly you have no idea what you want and your ex deserves to be with someone that is willing to work on the relationship and not bail when things aren't going your way or when you're bored. Leave her alone. You say you don't see a future with her so let her go so she can find someone who can. Figure out what you want before you start another relationship. 1
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