yorkie Posted November 18, 2013 Posted November 18, 2013 reason why i ask because alot of people know on here i have kids and i have them live with me. she has them every week day from 3.15pm - 6pm the afternoon school pick up, and when she drops them off she stays in the car. anyway recently after 2 months of begging and crying i did NC for a week, then she walks into the house like nothing has happened and leaves as im apparently not talking. the next day i invite her in and we talk she cry's and says sorry for hurting me and the kids etc then clams up again and says she doesn't want to be in a relationship with me. so for a week i beg and cry again. then i thought feck it and i again go NC well its LC really as we need to text for the kids. but now i am moving on and dating etc she is starting to slowly break the routine up as in the last two nights she has come to my door instead of waiting in the car. last night i really cant remember but she just said something and i didnt respond just said i'll sort it i actually have forgotten what that was lol. but tonight she came to the door and said some old joint pals wanted to plan a night out and have invited us out. she said she wasnt going but wanted to know if i wanted to. now why couldn't she of just texted me that like she had a few texts before about the kids. i think she is testing the water i dont know! and before anyone says move on etc i am and i just said to her i will ring them and shut the door. harsh i know but i aint really bothered as she hurt me so badley i am just trying not to think about that. so my questions are what are bread crumbs is that a bread crumb i don't know, i think if i carry this on she is gonna try harder if it is. now dont get me wrong yes i love her but i am now moving on i dont really want her back as trust has been broken and to throw me away like she did i think i could never ever trust her again. i dont know just some one tell me if this is bread crumbs? and also what bread crumbs do people receive as i think im starting to receive some
Onlyafterdark Posted November 18, 2013 Posted November 18, 2013 Feel for you buddy reading your post,ur prob doing better than me im 6mnths on still txting everyday i cant do Nc cos of kids maybe do use it as an excuse.My ex says she doesnt want me,yet has to query girls liking my posts on fb.Last weekened she thought i was seeing another woman i didnt see it at first but she said she fecking loves me.Anyhow i went round was cuddling her trying to kiss she wasnt pulling away same again saturday,then sunday i gets a txt nothings changed between us i wont be pushed into anything.Now i think she offered sum breadcrumbs cause she thought i was moving on.Im begging to see my wife is a narcissit ! Breadcrums you tell me id like to know this as shes jealous but dont want me to move on
Author yorkie Posted November 19, 2013 Author Posted November 19, 2013 i think that is the problem when i was begging cryig and etc i was being told to move on now that i aint interested she is trying to make conversations and going out her way to talk to me which i find really weird! if i hadnt had kids with this woman i would never speak to her again! so come on boys and girls what are breadcrumbs
2fargone Posted November 19, 2013 Posted November 19, 2013 Anything that doesn't say something along the lines of 'I made a mistake and I want you back'. So 'I miss you', 'I still love you' and everything else. As for the motives of them, one can only guess. I don't think it's all bad tbh...
2fargone Posted November 19, 2013 Posted November 19, 2013 all bad lol what do you mean? I mean the reason one gets the breadcrums isn't always a selfish reason. But the thing to remember is that you can't live off of crums....
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