Pocky Posted December 27, 2004 Posted December 27, 2004 Patty - Have you discussed this with your mother? Or do you have any other adult in your family that you could discuss this with? You need to talk with an adult that you can trust on how you should handle this situation.
Author Patty Posted December 27, 2004 Author Posted December 27, 2004 I broke down crying,telling my mother what he said to me.She said "Sometimes men are like that" I discussed this with her and she asked me what he was mad about.I didnt go in to details to her about it.I know I probably should of told her.The reason I dont is Im not comfortable talking about it with her.I'll tell my friends,I'll tell LoveShack and I will tell my therapist.Its the only places I feel comfortable to talk about with this situation. Thanks for all the support. Patty
Barby Posted December 27, 2004 Posted December 27, 2004 I'm glad that you did tell her at least part of what happened. Talking with your therapist is probably the best idea by far. I think maybe your therapist can help you to understand the situation a little better because she knows you and what's going on in your life better than any of us here on loveshack do... But I'm glad that you feel comfortable talking to your mom now. I remember previous posts that you didn't feel you could come to her about your problems. I'm happy that you're able to open up to some degree to her. When will you be seeing your guy again? Have you talked to him since this incident happened?
Naive Posted December 27, 2004 Posted December 27, 2004 Patty, I have read MANY of your posts and it only seems to get worse. If he is not flirting with your friend he is lying or getting mad at you for STUPID reasons. You have to really analyze what you are worth and if he sees that. We cannot tell you what to do but I hope that you consider that almost all of us tell you to get out that relationship. We can all see he does not value you. If he cared he would have been okay with not doing it. Not so ling ago I reunited with someone who I love and who says he loves me. He wanted to get busy but I said no and you know what he said??? He said, "whenever you are ready". We talked the rest of the night and he never tried again. That showed he cared. Think about it.
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