How do you get over someone you actually don't want to?

[confused83]

I was only seeing this girl for around 3 months total from start to finish and I dont fall for people easily, i'd say ive dated around 15 woman and she is only the second one ive really fell for. She doesn't want to see me again and i cant believe after such a short time im taking it so hard. Cannot stop looking at her pictures and old texts as had the best time when we was together. Everyone is telling me to get over her but I just feel i dont want too and would do anything to win her round. I dont talk to her because i know it would make me look stupid but how do you get over someone you actually dont want to get over? my ex i was with her for 3 years and dont feel i took it this hard because we both decided it was over, this one i dont want to end. Any advice at all because its ruining me not eating and just feeling **** about myself

[Haydn]

Delete your messages and pics. Block all social media. It will be hard but she does not want you so you must not want her. Dont try to contact her. Leave her alone and think about what you really want from someone? Trust me, its not her. Feels like it now but its not her. Post here when you feel moments of weakness. It will help. Take care.

[felicity1]

Definitely keep away from her. Why do you want a girl who doesn't want you? If you have some self-respect, you won't run after her. No point. And when you give her space and show her you're moving on(stop giving her attention), she may change her mind and come back to you. She won't come back to you if you hang after her. Desperation and pleading never never never works!

[theonlyjuan]

Things I did

 

1) Go NC

2) Hide her from FB newsfeed/block her

3) Deleted all pics of us

4) Saw my friends/went out

5) Exercised my stress away

 

You just have to force yourself sometimes. Try and turn off that voice in your head that questions everything

[confused83]

Just find it so hard, tried going on a date as someone said it would be a good idea and found myself feeling 1000 times worse when i got back as was nothing there.

 

Just feel stupid

[Haydn]

You are not stupid. It gets worse before it gets better. You are not alone. Many here will tell you. Dont rush into dating take time for you. Take care.