thewrongonee Posted November 18, 2013 Posted November 18, 2013 Hello LS. I met a beautiful girl in one of my classes in university, who i became extreamly attracted to. She told me she was in a commited relationship, 7 years to be exact. However, she did continue talking to me, flirty as allways, and later on she broke the news that she broke up with her ex. So we started dating, everything was working out good. Communication wise and sexually too. Few days ago we both had a talk regards to dating, because we both realized we arent dating... we are actually a couple. So we did agree to it and now are in a relationship. But the only thing that i did not get was she broke the news to me that shes not ready for sex or she will ever be ( probably because of her ex, shes holding on?). I dont get it because i've seen her naked and we do this often as in making out and other sexual things. But shes not ready for sex. What do i do or say, should i tell her ill wait till shes ready or tell her that shes holding on to something and i cannot have that. should i move on? Because sex is important in a relationship.
Philosoraptor Posted November 18, 2013 Posted November 18, 2013 Well you shouldn't be in a relationship with someone who isn't over their ex. The sex thing is what it is, she isn't willing to sleep with you. You can either enjoy the rest or end it.
d0nnivain Posted November 18, 2013 Posted November 18, 2013 It's a personal choice on both ends. If you two make different choices on this very important subject, you may be fundamentally incompatible.
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