JustaRegularGuyZ Posted November 18, 2013 Posted November 18, 2013 This is and I KNEW this would happen! I initiated a full NC with my ex-gf who dumped me and she has contacted me via email writing: Hey I'm just making sure you're okay? Can you tell me when you get back to Toronto so I know you're alive. It would mean a lot to me. No, I didn't write back. No, I will not. It has been 5 weeks of hard NC. 2
Meadowgreen Posted November 18, 2013 Posted November 18, 2013 This is and I KNEW this would happen! I initiated a full NC with my ex-gf who dumped me and she has contacted me via email writing: Hey I'm just making sure you're okay? Can you tell me when you get back to Toronto so I know you're alive. It would mean a lot to me. No, I didn't write back. No, I will not. It has been 5 weeks of hard NC. Hey, good for you! I don't know the background of your relationship but I'm pretty sure she's touching base to see if she can keep you in her back pocket or not as a 'plan b'. That probably sounds pretty callous and whatnot but it's a classic thing the dumper in the situation tends to do. They've walked away, but it's a big scary world out there, made less scary by knowing they've got 'old faithful' ie YOU still waiting in the wings. She also may be gearing up to 'pressing the reset button'. This is also a classic move by the dumper who's feeling regretful or unsure of their new life as a singleton. They're arrogant enough to believe that you'll be so devoted to them that they can just pick up right where they left off, like nothing's happened. My advice? Block her ass. Go the gym, take some classes, get out with your friends, do some harmless flirting. Let her see what she's missing. You're not her lapdog so don't go trotting over just because she's getting cold feet. Good luck! 1
Author JustaRegularGuyZ Posted November 18, 2013 Author Posted November 18, 2013 My advice? Block her ass. Go the gym, take some classes, get out with your friends, do some harmless flirting. Let her see what she's missing. You're not her lapdog so don't go trotting over just because she's getting cold feet. Good luck! Oh I was the one who blocked her and our mutual friends on Facebook, deleted all phones, dumped all of the photos. She is keeping my love letters and emails from the past though. I've been hitting Gym, studying, swimming, writing, all of my old hobbies! I've been flirting with countless girls and I am enjoying my freedom. I rarely think of her haha. She doesn't deserve a reply from me. 3
Meadowgreen Posted November 18, 2013 Posted November 18, 2013 Oh I was the one who blocked her and our mutual friends on Facebook, deleted all phones, dumped all of the photos. She is keeping my love letters and emails from the past though. I've been hitting Gym, studying, swimming, writing, all of my old hobbies! I've been flirting with countless girls and I am enjoying my freedom. I rarely think of her haha. She doesn't deserve a reply from me. That's the spirit! Leave her with her regret. Sounds like she did you a massive favour. I think great things are on the horizon for you
RespectfullyAlone Posted November 18, 2013 Posted November 18, 2013 Nicely done dude. I wish I had that fire in my belly again to carry on with the hope it will all turn out for the best. I guess being left by so many people over the years, ends up leaving and having a permanent effect on a person. You no longer believe what you do makes a difference in the world, that the light is really existent at the end of the tunnel. I certainly don't and I'm one of the most stubborn gullible persons I know. I've ALWAYS believed things will work out, but after going through this crap for at least half your life, you wake up one day and things are different. Maybe this is the reality, whereas thinking and believing it will all work out, you'll meet that special someone is the fantasy. 1
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