SharkTooth Posted November 18, 2013 Posted November 18, 2013 Just wanted to drop by and check on the Shack..It was a little over a year ago I had my heart broken and then stumbled on to LS. I know how that feeling was when I first got here and knowing or not knowing what was going to happen was the worst part. We never did get back together. I know that's not what anyone wanted to hear but she wanted to a few months ago. I had a couple diners and fun with her, but those crazy incredible feelings I once had for her were gone. She's a friend that wants more but will never have it again. I grew a little, moved on, and became a stronger person. My advice from my personal experiance..listen to the old dawgs on here and take their advice. Keep busy and surround yourself with positive fun friends and family. Avoid all drama. There's more to everyone here than just this super aweful experiance your living thru. There is so much fun waiting for you once the heal is over. Divert your focus and time towards yourself. Yep, excercise! Just do it! And stick to it. 6 months from now, people you haven't seen will freak out how great you look. The great part about that is you feel great! And yes, there really is a better love out there. It's strange to come back and see different names with the exact same problems. I can honestly say that I feel your pain but at the same time, I guess if I was a doctor I'd feel pretty good because I'd know everyone of you will be ok. But let the pain take it's course, it's natural and ok to feel the way you do..just know that you will be a better person on the other side.. I wish everyone the absolute best! 8
Brokenguy22 Posted November 18, 2013 Posted November 18, 2013 Thanks man gives me hope for the future!! Glad you were able to move on and even had the chance to get back with her and knew she wasn't what you wanted anymore.
Kansas87 Posted November 18, 2013 Posted November 18, 2013 That is encouraging to hear I'm glad you're doing so well.
Sugarkane Posted November 18, 2013 Posted November 18, 2013 So are you on good terms with your ex? I kind of envy you. I've never met an ex much later and got closure out of it. It makes me sad to think you can love someone so much and it just be thrown away so easily by the dumper. 1
chris21422 Posted November 18, 2013 Posted November 18, 2013 Thank you for sharing this! I've going through a break up for a month now.. Things do get better but still sometimes you feel you are just crushed and you just miss the person so much... Hope everybody will find their happiness soon! Good luck to everyone.
ConfusedHumanBeing Posted November 18, 2013 Posted November 18, 2013 Just wanted to drop by and check on the Shack..It was a little over a year ago I had my heart broken and then stumbled on to LS. I know how that feeling was when I first got here and knowing or not knowing what was going to happen was the worst part. We never did get back together. I know that's not what anyone wanted to hear but she wanted to a few months ago. I had a couple diners and fun with her, but those crazy incredible feelings I once had for her were gone. She's a friend that wants more but will never have it again. I grew a little, moved on, and became a stronger person. My advice from my personal experiance..listen to the old dawgs on here and take their advice. Keep busy and surround yourself with positive fun friends and family. Avoid all drama. There's more to everyone here than just this super aweful experiance your living thru. There is so much fun waiting for you once the heal is over. Divert your focus and time towards yourself. Yep, excercise! Just do it! And stick to it. 6 months from now, people you haven't seen will freak out how great you look. The great part about that is you feel great! And yes, there really is a better love out there. It's strange to come back and see different names with the exact same problems. I can honestly say that I feel your pain but at the same time, I guess if I was a doctor I'd feel pretty good because I'd know everyone of you will be ok. But let the pain take it's course, it's natural and ok to feel the way you do..just know that you will be a better person on the other side.. I wish everyone the absolute best! I LOVE when threads like this pop up on here. We have people like myself and many other telling newer people that it gets better and they just dont want to accept that....and posters like this just justifies everything. IT DOES GET BETTER! You HAVE TO want to get better though! Great to hear from you again Shark. Glad its going well!!
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