get a rep for treating women like s@#$. they will flock to you.

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You haven't seen some of the guys I know. Charles Manson has a number of women that seem to be in love with him.

 

I think both men and women who let themselves be treated like that just because somebody is hot are morons. Have some self respect.

 

I don't deny that there's (very dumb) women that will flock to a really bad infamous guy regardless of what he looks like, hence you get serial killers like Ted Bundy and the Yorkshire ripper who have had female admirers. That being said, I don't think it's that much different to very attractive women who get male admirers and even sympathy when they commit a horrific crime.

 

But average, every day men who are ugly and act like c*nts? Not so much. They go in the "creepy" box.

 

I can only guess some of the women you know that flock to these type have serious issues like drug addiction or whatever.

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I don't deny that there's (very dumb) women that will flock to a really bad infamous guy regardless of what he looks like, hence you get serial killers like Ted Bundy and the Yorkshire ripper who have had female admirers. That being said, I don't think it's that much different to very attractive women who get male admirers and even sympathy when they commit a horrific crime.

 

But average, every day men who are ugly and act like c*nts? Not so much. They go in the "creepy" box.

 

I can only guess some of the women you know that flock to these type have serious issues like drug addiction or whatever.

 

Not really. I know some scumbags who are just not very good looking that always seem to have a girlfriend or two. I know some women who are the same way. I used to work with a woman that looked like she hadn't brushed her teeth since childhood that somehow had a number of pretty good looking suitors and she also had a fiance while she was dating these guys.

 

For some reason horrible always seem to have more victims willing to step up to take abuse.

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Being nice, caring and respectful also works!

[happydate]

Good guys (top dog Alpha Male).

 

Traits:

Authentic

High Self-Esteem

Least amount of EGO (meaning he has very little self-defense baggage when he gets upset). If he screwed up, so be it. But he isn't afraid to take risks that may end him screwed up.

High Self-Confidence

Focus Driven

Dynamic personality (fun, abundance of experience and knowledge etc..)

Humble and modest

Spiritual Leadership characteristics. Able to lead by either examples or by his strong energetic presence. People like Steve Jobs and many powerful people can mesmerized a huge audience and crowd of people even by their physical presence either in the room or outside!! A top dog Alpha male uses this ability to realize his needs and wants including the women who wants to meet and be with it. It's seems like some kind of psychic wonder, but you will see that many pickup ladies coaches will tell you this. What you want in thoughts will realize into reality if you just put your mind into it with confidence. Key is confidence which Good Guys have abundance of!

 

These people are rare in the world. The unfortunate part is that, this world is populated more by bad boys which is the similar as a Good Guy, but lacked the spiritual component to lead people.

 

 

Nice Guys:

 

Traits:

 

1, Low Self-Esteem

2, Always seeking approval

3, Aways trying to manipulate others into exacting a favourable response

4, Has an inflated ego (high self-defense mechanism). His manipulation of others is an attempt so his ego doesn't get bruised when he or she gets criticized or not liked. His inflated ego will always convince him or her that people who are jerks or acting authentic are bad people.

But in reality, the very people who they frame as jerks are people who are showing to them that's what they NEED TO CHANGE and HEAL.

5, Fake personality due to high degree of manipulation (women don't want fake guys). They want a real man.

6, Being Nice, Sincere and Respectful are just traits they made up to enforce their will on to others.

Respect is EARNED NOT GIVEN. They give respect to whichever woman they meet. Ahhh, even if the woman play games on him and treated him like a door mat. His ego will ensure that he must give more respect and kindness to these people who treat guys like trash.

You are nice, sincere and respectful to people like Nelson Mandela who had earned his rights and privileges by not BEING NICE. By fighting for what he believes in. If you are nice, sincere and respectful to a woman for the purpose of getting laid, that's manipulating her will to suit your needs. See the fallacy.

 

Now, if you want to know who's the top Alpha male. It is Nelson Mandela and a host of others, not like some guy who sells like a PUA book on the internet.

 

Hope this helps..

Edited December 8, 2013 by happydate