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get a rep for treating women like s@#$. they will flock to you.

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ponchsox Established Member

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Some women will flock to it, some won't.

 

I personally prefer the sweet nerdy type. ^_^

 

 

Thanks Phoe, that's exactly what I consider myself. It's nice to know that sweet, beautiful women like yourself appreciate us :)

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Woggle Established Member

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What about looking for the woman that is relationship material and isn't into drama? If clubs and bars is their only first option, then the chances of finding that woman are slim.

 

Having fun with emotional, dramatic girls is still giving them minutes of your time when you can use that to find the woman you're looking for.

 

Some men have long given up that search. I agree with you but many are tired of trying.

melell Established Member

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I came to the conclusion that everyone is attracted to a narcissist, or egotist. I have no idea why, but I have seen it time and time again. But that is only first level attraction.

I think as people get older and wiser they start to distinguish what will actually make them happy, and go for more suitable partners.

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ascendotum Established Member

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I came to the conclusion that everyone is attracted to a narcissist, or egotist. I have no idea why, but I have seen it time and time again. But that is only first level attraction.

I think as people get older and wiser they start to distinguish what will actually make them happy, and go for more suitable partners.

 

Many do get savvy after a couple of heartaches (wiser). Many will keep backing themselves to land that good catch narcissistic egotist till their fading sex appeal (age) makes them revaluate their prospects and their priorities in a partner from a long term perspective.

As someone else pointed out its not good for a long term perspective but its not so bad a persona (if there is an element of charm or good looks to go with it) to have in the short term dating market, and really that's still a good outcome for many guys. Just like women will learn to avoid them, many such guys can learn to mello as they get older to keep the right woman in their life.

MissBee Established Member

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I don't believe all or even most women are into this but I have never seen a man like this struggle with women. I am just calling it like I see it. It doesn't get the kind of women worth having though.

 

Ditto.

 

The women who are into this, I guarantee have some kind of issue which makes them interested in men who treat them poorly.

 

However, a woman with no such issue is going to tell an a-hole where he can shove it.

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Kate9292 Established Member

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By "everyone", do you mean "all women"?

 

Because that is probably one of the biggest turn-offs to me in a woman. I like women that are nice to me and consider my feelings.

 

Nobody can say what all women want.

 

But we can say that not all women are attracted to narcissists or egoists. I like some attitude in moderation, but too much is a turnoff.

beatcuff Established Member

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This is what some guys get confused about. They go towards being a total straight up jerk. We don't like extremes.

 

BINGO. i have noticed women tend to be at least curious of 'jerks'. doing it humorously or self-effacing shows confidence. any other approach is just being, well, a jerk.

Elliotte Established Member

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I think women just are more attracted to men who don't put them on a pedestal and worship them. Guys are flocking to women all the time, so the guy who isn't flocking to a women instantly distinguishes himself.

 

But I think "treating women like ****", using The Game or Tom Leykis type techniques to get women with underhanded insults, mind games and other such "bad boy" textbook BS is absolutely not the way to be, and in the long run, creates way too much drama and pain for everyone.

 

Just work on your confidence, treat women the way you want to be treated and if you get acquainted with someone you find attractive, ask her out for a date. Got me a lot of dates just fine.

joystickd Established Member

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I will agree I have noticed that the women I was nice too just rejected me or played games. The ones I acted like a jerk too loved me. Leaves a man confused about what women actually want. Nice guy please save that for the people that believe the BS you women talk:D

Kofybean Established Member

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I haven't posted in awhile. But it never fails...women love jerks! And the bad rep only helps attract them. If you have issues try being an a@%. Still haven't figured out why they like it but oh well.

 

Do the amount of women who flock to this rep exceed the amount of women flocking to any other rep? For example, if you had a rep for being a good dancer. I'm sure there is a subset of women that flock to that type. Would promoting one self as a bada$$ jerk profit you more women than promoting oneself as a bada$$ dancer?

Phoe Established Member

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There's a guy at my work who is a complete dick.

 

Everyone knows it. He knows it. He's tall, handsome, but an absolute dick.

 

 

There are maybe 2 or 3 girls who seem to flock to him, but the rest are mostly indifferent to him, and me in particular? I spent months AVOIDING him.

 

 

I think he realized that there was no way we'd even carry out a cordial workplace relationship if I don't even speak to him. So you know what he did? He started acting nice.

He's now polite towards me, friendly, gives a smile every now and then. Now we can actually carry out a conversation like normal humans instead of me avoiding him like a plague.

 

 

I still see him being a dick to others sometimes though. Ugh.

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Woggle Established Member

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There's a guy at my work who is a complete dick.

 

Everyone knows it. He knows it. He's tall, handsome, but an absolute dick.

 

 

There are maybe 2 or 3 girls who seem to flock to him, but the rest are mostly indifferent to him, and me in particular? I spent months AVOIDING him.

 

 

I think he realized that there was no way we'd even carry out a cordial workplace relationship if I don't even speak to him. So you know what he did? He started acting nice.

He's now polite towards me, friendly, gives a smile every now and then. Now we can actually carry out a conversation like normal humans instead of me avoiding him like a plague.

 

 

I still see him being a dick to others sometimes though. Ugh.

2 or 3 in one workplace is still a good average. There are probably some nice guys who can't get one.

carhill Established Member

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Also, a good game. The neg and his hotness gets him noticed, then he turns 'nice' for the targets. Smooth.

Kofybean Established Member

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I think he realized that there was no way we'd even carry out a cordial workplace relationship if I don't even speak to him. So you know what he did? He started acting nice.

He's now....

 

Getting the bad boy to change. Ultimate self esteem and bragging points no woman can resist.

Phoe Established Member

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*facepalm*

 

glad to see my point was completely missed. meh.

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Kate9292 Established Member

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2 or 3 in one workplace is still a good average. There are probably some nice guys who can't get one.

 

So the whole point of work is to have women flock to you? :confused:

WP4046 Established Member

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you have to understand that most women will not admit to the things below because they want to maintain a certain image

 

1. no issue with one night stands

 

2. no issue with dating jerks

 

3. want a man with money

 

 

How many women do you know want someone to view them as slutty and materialistic? lol

 

These things are done on..................."THE DOWN LOW"

Woggle Established Member

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So the whole point of work is to have women flock to you? :confused:

 

No but if any man has three women chasing after him I say he is doing pretty good with the ladies. Many men can't even get one.

WP4046 Established Member

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This thread is the reason why FWB is so popular

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John316C Established Member

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this is the bad boy he is the 2nd highest of the top "dog" males.

 

the top dog is the alpha MAN

 

you are describing the alpha BOY

 

women like it because it displays abundance and dominance.

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At a night out with some coworkers we played the "never have I ever game." The topics became sexual and I was the only one in the group that had threesomes, sex with someone 15 years older than me, etc. I thought to myself great, there go my chances with any of them. But you know what? They actually became more interested, and as I ignored them the interest was amplified.

Eternal Sunshine Established Member

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Treat women like s$%^ and you will be dumped and exposed to the mutual circle of friends. Nobody will want to date you then.

Woggle Established Member

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Treat women like s$%^ and you will be dumped and exposed to the mutual circle of friends. Nobody will want to date you then.

 

ES you know I like you but this is just plain not true. I know a number of men who are known for mistreating women and not one of them struggles with their love and sex lives. I don't think all women go for this but a jerk will never have trouble attracting one. It's what I have observed over the years.

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It's mainly only good looking guys that can pull the whole treat 'em mean, keep 'em keen kind attitude though.

 

I've never seen an unattractive guy pull it off. It's always the handsome and charming guy.

Woggle Established Member

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It's mainly only good looking guys that can pull the whole treat 'em mean, keep 'em keen kind attitude though.

 

I've never seen an unattractive guy pull it off. It's always the handsome and charming guy.

 

You haven't seen some of the guys I know. Charles Manson has a number of women that seem to be in love with him.

 

I think both men and women who let themselves be treated like that just because somebody is hot are morons. Have some self respect.

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