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get a rep for treating women like s@#$. they will flock to you.

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singlelife Established Member

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I haven't posted in awhile. But it never fails...women love jerks! And the bad rep only helps attract them. If you have issues try being an a@%. Still haven't figured out why they like it but oh well.

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haha love this post

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singlelife Established Member

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haha love this post

 

thanks. i try to speak the truth. i see no women deny it.

Woggle Established Member

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I don't believe all or even most women are into this but I have never seen a man like this struggle with women. I am just calling it like I see it. It doesn't get the kind of women worth having though.

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Phoe Established Member

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Some women will flock to it, some won't.

 

I personally prefer the sweet nerdy type. ^_^

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Woggle Established Member

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Do you guys even want the kind of women that flock to this? There has to be something wrong with somebody that actually enjoys being treated this way so let the scumbags have them.

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I haven't posted in awhile. But it never fails...women love jerks! And the bad rep only helps attract them. If you have issues try being an a@%. Still haven't figured out why they like it but oh well.

 

OMG this has made my day! You had me laughing hard like no other. Thank you, every little bit of laughter helps. I think I laughed atleast 5 times today and I'm already on Day 3 of the break-up and I feel the pain lifting.

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This tactic only works if you are handsome and charming too. Ugly *******s don't get much tail. In fact they probably get less than ugly nice guys. It's all relative.

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StanMusial Established Member

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The bad treatment is a side effect of other traits women tend to appreciate. No one likes poor treatment, they just put up with it while enjoying the other benefits.

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Some women will flock to it, some won't.

 

I personally prefer the sweet nerdy type. ^_^

 

I like the sweet Phoe type.

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winny Established Member

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Haha.. applies to guys too..

Every guy I meet tells me... u are so nice and sweet and pretty and simple...

But then leaves me or while with me keeps pining over old GFs who cheated on him... till one day I get irritated and dump him...!

Phoe Established Member

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I like the sweet Phoe type.

 

awww! *blushes* :D

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There are certain types of people of both genders who just seem to want what they can't have. But then people grow up.

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Absinthe Established Member

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PEOPLE (not just girls) love drama. I've left someone, and been left, for the dramatic "exciting" ex.

 

The problem (for me) with the nice folks is not that they're nice per se. It's the traits that seem to universally come hand-in-hand with "niceness" - predictability, agreeing with everything you say, wanting to do everything you do. What makes the "bad boys" so attractive to me is that, when it comes to their own lives, they take the reins and steer, although it'd be nice if that came without the added unnecessary drama. The search continues...

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Kate9292 Established Member

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So I must not be a woman then because I don't flock to guys that treat me like crap.

 

Joke on me :rolleyes:

samsungxoxo Established Member

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If it works then why aren't they stable in the long run? Why the constant need to change woman after woman? What happened that they couldn't stay with woman for many years and instead have short-lived flings??

 

It depends on who they are attracting. Some women don't care about long-term relationships so that would probably be the perfect match for them.

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I haven't posted in awhile. But it never fails...women love jerks! And the bad rep only helps attract them. If you have issues try being an a@%. Still haven't figured out why they like it but oh well.

Based on a lot of life experience, there certainly appears to be a subset who do gravitate to that reputation and, so far, the vast majority of those I've interacted with who do have also shared about trauma or abuse or other dysfunction in their FOO. Are the two related? Unknown.

 

Also, regarding 'flocking', generally people don't get to be the center of attention without some 'draw', so it follows that when observing such people one will draw inferences from their observations. 'Flocking' doesn't necessarily mean 'staying with', except, as I've noted, within the subset who apparently find attraction in abuse.

 

Lastly, people with a reputation for treating other people poorly stand out, so their behaviors are more easily noticed, as well as the results of the behavior. Other, less noticeable people, less so. Hence, it's easy to point to the jerks and their harem as examples of a behavior and result simply because it's 'out there' compared to other people and their interactions.

 

So, given there are billions of people in the world, if one gets a rep for being a jerk, just like a rep for anything else, there will be a subset of those people for whom that is synergistic. Something for everyone.

samsungxoxo Established Member

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Personally I think quality is way better than quantity. Just because he has been with 50+ women doesn't mean he'll be great as a life partner. He can still suck badly.

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Even if I would use the OP's advice, I couldn't even pull off the ability of being a jerk without making a complete fool out of myself.

 

Thanks though.

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Give me a gentleman any time.... Any time. It's my secret weakness.

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crederer Established Member

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I've found for the purposes of picking up, being a bit of a jerk usually works better than being mr. Nice guy. But you have to do it in a way that's humerous or challenging and not just a straight up jerk.

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samsungxoxo Established Member

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I've found for the purposes of picking up, being a bit of a jerk usually works better than being mr. Nice guy. But you have to do it in a way that's humerous or challenging and not just a straight up jerk.
This is what some guys get confused about. They go towards being a total straight up jerk. We don't like extremes.
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Nah, women flocked to me when I was single and I treated them very, very well. Oh, when I say women, I meant to say quality women with good self-esteem and intelligence. :p I wouldn't want some basket case who flock to idiots hanging around me anyway.

This philosophy will leave you with a stalker or someone who is a black hole of emotional need.

Just say no to crazy,

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Woggle Established Member

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If it works then why aren't they stable in the long run? Why the constant need to change woman after woman? What happened that they couldn't stay with woman for many years and instead have short-lived flings??

 

It depends on who they are attracting. Some women don't care about long-term relationships so that would probably be the perfect match for them.

 

Because any man with some sense knows a woman who loves drama is not relationship material. They can be fun to play with for a while but you never marry them.

samsungxoxo Established Member

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Because any man with some sense knows a woman who loves drama is not relationship material. They can be fun to play with for a while but you never marry them.
What about looking for the woman that is relationship material and isn't into drama? If clubs and bars is their only first option, then the chances of finding that woman are slim.

 

Having fun with emotional, dramatic girls is still giving them minutes of your time when you can use that to find the woman you're looking for.

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