boo_ernz Posted November 17, 2013 Posted November 17, 2013 (edited) Okay, so my ex has a new SO, and she plasters pics of them online all the time. He doesn't do this, which is not normal for him. Its like she's obsessed about him. Posting I love, you now and forever. And he just leaves his display pic of himself alone. YEP IM THE CRAZY EX. But I can't help read into all this. Its so obvious, that I can't help but read into it. I know I'm crazy. I know. But, I can't help but feel, he got together with a 19 young virgin, thats head over heals for him. Does any of this matter...No. Does it leave me with the idea that their not really as it seems. Yeah it kind of does. It just reminds me all of my relationship with him, on repeat. It's like people repeat relationship patterns over and over. I don't know what i'm asking... just I know it's real to him, real to her. And they are in love... And I never talk about my crazyness.. But I can't help but feel relationships are never what they really seem. I hate that i read into something that I know nothing about. Projecting my thoughts and ideas. Crossing my fingers wanting to watch their world burn. Can anyone help me with my crazyness. And what is yours? Edited November 17, 2013 by boo_ernz
Haydn Posted November 17, 2013 Posted November 17, 2013 Let it go. Build yourself up. Do it right now. Okay, so my ex has a new SO, and she plasters pics of them online all the time. He doesn't do this, which is not normal for him. Its like she's obsessed about him. Posting I love, you now and forever. And he just leaves his display pic of himself alone. YEP IM THE CRAZY EX. But I can't help read into all this. Its so obvious, that I can't help but read into it. I know I'm crazy. I know. But, I can't help but feel, he got together with a 19 young virgin, thats head over heals for him. Does any of this matter...No. Does it leave me with the idea that their not really as it seems. Yeah it kind of does. It just reminds me all of my relationship with him, on repeat. It's like people repeat relationship patterns over and over. I don't know what i'm asking... just I know it's real to him, real to her. And they are in love... And I never talk about my crazyness.. But I can't help but feel relationships are never what they really seem. I hate that i read into something that I know nothing about. Projecting my thoughts and ideas. Crossing my fingers wanting to watch their world burn. Can anyone help me with my crazyness. And what is yours?
Confusedguy81 Posted November 17, 2013 Posted November 17, 2013 ignore them both. Dont look at their online stuff. Just move on. Relationships can suck.
Author boo_ernz Posted November 17, 2013 Author Posted November 17, 2013 pretty vague advice. I feel like they are quotes from hallmark cards. I know, all of thats true. And yes, I get frustrated when friends of my just don't let go of their ex's. .. Cause yeah, its just a matter of letting go, right.
Confusedguy81 Posted November 17, 2013 Posted November 17, 2013 pretty vague advice. I feel like they are quotes from hallmark cards. I know, all of thats true. And yes, I get frustrated when friends of my just don't let go of their ex's. .. Cause yeah, its just a matter of letting go, right. don't know what more you want. It's pretty cut and dry. it upsets you to see online stuff so don't look. Remove them from your social sites or whatever. What benefit is it to you to see that stuff? It only makes you angry. Do you want to be angry? If so then keep looking. Not trying to be a jerk. Im just being honest. 1
Author boo_ernz Posted November 18, 2013 Author Posted November 18, 2013 don't know what more you want. It's pretty cut and dry. it upsets you to see online stuff so don't look. Remove them from your social sites or whatever. What benefit is it to you to see that stuff? It only makes you angry. Do you want to be angry? If so then keep looking. Not trying to be a jerk. Im just being honest. Your not being a jerk. I check to see how much it effects me. It feels like almost a progress report on how well I'm moving along. Let's just say, each time I see something new, I get less effected each time. I just want to one day check it out and realize I don't care. It's been slowly getting there. Its the only measuring stick i have.
greenfairie Posted November 18, 2013 Posted November 18, 2013 What a douche. You deserve so much more. Check out this site baggage reclaim A lot of great articles to help you out with some perspective Take care and good luck!
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