99teggsr Posted December 25, 2004 Posted December 25, 2004 Ok, so heres my story. Me and this girl met about 15 months ago, we have been dating for 13 months. We fell in love so quick, went to jamiaca together and had some really awsome times that I will never forget. during these 13 months her ex was in jail for most of the time. Well when he got out I sugested going to see him to score some H (another long story). Went down there about twice then I called my gf when I was at work and she said "ex called me to come down and hang out but my neighbor said that just wouldnt be fair to do that to you, so im gonna stay home". It turns out she was on the way there when we talked! She went down there, ****ed him in her car then left. She then played me like everything was fine for about 3 weeks until she went down another time and totally blew me off. She stayed down there for a couple hours and kept giving me excuses why she hadnt come back yet, then she finailly just shut off her phone. the next day i asked her if she had cheated on me, she had said she kissed him. So from that day we decided to take a break, I found out about 3 days later from her neighbor that she had ****ed him and lied to me. Well he was on parole and od'ed in her car the other night so he is in jail now. Now she wants me back but i cant help but feel its only cause he is in jail. I dont know what to do, if i take her back whats gonna happen when he gets out ?? she wants to goto relationship counceling with me on monday but im not sure if this is worth trying to save. she did me so wrong and i can never forgive her and i dontr know if we can move on. What to do ?? give it a nother go and see what happens, or just let her go cause I dont want to get hurt again. I feel like i might be making a big mistake if i dont take her back.
Author 99teggsr Posted December 25, 2004 Author Posted December 25, 2004 because I still love her so much and care about her. I just dont want to risk being hurt like this again so im not sure what to do. Even if i dont take her back i want to keep her away from what she almost fell into. the week and a half we were on a break she bought this guy like 600$ worth of crack and H and even tried coke for the first time. she is like 300$ in debt from her bank and she was considering buying large amounts of hard drugs to sell. she doesnt know what she is gettin into, ive seen so many people go down from messin with hard **** and i dont want it to happen to her. This wouldnt be anything surprising for some of my friends but she is a good girl, a+'s in school, only has smoked weed a few time and did E once. Damn, we went to jamiaca for a week and she only took 2 hits when i was smoking like 7 grams a day.
Mr Spock Posted December 26, 2004 Posted December 26, 2004 She sounds like a REAL winner....what's wrong with you that you don't have the self esteem to find someone better? Other than you're operating on reduced brain capacity due to all the weed you've been smoking. You're setting yourself up for failure dude. The chick is banging convicts in her car.
Author 99teggsr Posted December 26, 2004 Author Posted December 26, 2004 Originally posted by Mr Spock She sounds like a REAL winner....what's wrong with you that you don't have the self esteem to find someone better? Other than you're operating on reduced brain capacity due to all the weed you've been smoking. You're setting yourself up for failure dude. The chick is banging convicts in her car. Man, i know she did some messed up stuff. And i know i am diggin my own grave if i get back with her. This guy would call her everytime he was on a H withdrawl so she naturally felt sorry for him so she would go buy him a bunch of drugs. She had his kid about 3yrs ago and gave it up for adoption and he doesnt even know!! god damn im so confused but i think the best thing to do would be leave her and never look back. she played me for a year tellin me to quit drugs,etc,etc. She made me think she would only love me if i was straight edge then she goes and messes with this junkie scum crackhead and acts like its no big thing when he Od's in her car and almost dies on her..I woulda loved her much much more if i had met who she really is..
guest Posted December 26, 2004 Posted December 26, 2004 You shouldn't have to even think about this. She is not good for you. She's not even good for herself. Don't drag yourself down. Leave her for good and move on.
Shaka610 Posted December 28, 2004 Posted December 28, 2004 Please read my "mind blowing experience" i fel like u the first time man... and look at me now
Author 99teggsr Posted January 20, 2005 Author Posted January 20, 2005 Well folks, i gotta say you were all right. So since my last post the junkie was put in jail for a month. so me and her get back together and everything is OK, she swaers she wont hurt me again blah blah blah. I was expecting the worse as soon as he got out. Just got off the phone with her and i guess she went down there tonight and screwed him. I feel like the last month has been such a lie. ehh, atleast i got laid a few more times than if i were to have dumped her from the beggining. Lessons learned: 1. never become friends with your girls ex, she will regain interest in him 2. listen frto your friends when they tell you shes been with 40 guys and will cheat on you they're probably right 3. you cannot change people, once a whore always PS, I know shes gonna try and come back again when junkie hurts her and im just gonna sit back and watch her suffer like I had to
rachael Posted January 20, 2005 Posted January 20, 2005 dnt go back shes allready broke your heart once so its going to happen again. she left you the last time 4 another man and shes going to do it again. find some1else who is going to respect you and wouldnt even dream of loosing you. ask yourself this if the other man was still around would she still want you?
rachael Posted January 20, 2005 Posted January 20, 2005 sorry i didnt read your last message thats gr8 you have come to your senses nice 1 now you can get on with everything . go out n av a buzz with your m8z because they are the people who are allways there 4 u as i have found out .
Author 99teggsr Posted January 20, 2005 Author Posted January 20, 2005 Will do. Talked to her this morning and set aside a day when she can get all her stuff and I can get mine. I Swear this girl is so thick in the head, shes already askin for me back. I said no and she was like "ever?". Now that were done I find it much easier to not be with her than to try and hold on to what we had.
Author 99teggsr Posted January 20, 2005 Author Posted January 20, 2005 Originally posted by rachael dnt go back shes allready broke your heart once so its going to happen again. she left you the last time 4 another man and shes going to do it again. find some1else who is going to respect you and wouldnt even dream of loosing you. ask yourself this if the other man was still around would she still want you? Thats the strange thing, junkie is still around, but shes askin for me back already and telling me she can change. Obviously she cant and never will so thats her problem. The good thing about all this is after the first time it happened I bet her 250$ that she would cheat on me again when he gets out of jail. He got out on the 14th and she lasted FIVE days before she gave up. I just dont understand how we coulda had the best 13 months of our lives then all of a sudden this happens. Its like the old saying goes, you play with snakes you get bit. In my case its you fall in love with a whore your gonna get cheated on.
blind_otter Posted January 20, 2005 Posted January 20, 2005 It's an addict's life. It's so easy when you have a junkie boyfriend, or one who sells drugs. There's a certain personality type that is attracted to men like that. It's a sick dance. Just get the f*ck away from all that bullsh*t. Get clean. Stay clean. It's hard, once you know how it feels to be that high - you have to re-learn how to go about your normal life without getting that high high high that you used to. Just be single for a while. That's what I'm having to do. Otherwise you ping-pong from horrible relationship to horrible relationship.
tattoomytoe Posted January 20, 2005 Posted January 20, 2005 PS~ go get tested for STD's...............like every other month for a year!
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