JohnnyLoverBoy Posted November 17, 2013 Posted November 17, 2013 (edited) I'll try to make it at short as possible. - I've been with this great girl for 2 years. - She really love me with all her heart - Talked about getting married - She Buy me clothes, stuff everything even I don't ask her to - We are in long distance relationship (ME USA & HER EUROPE) - We been together for only 9 Months in 2 years we been together. Things just started to change when she became the manager of the store she's working at in Europe. - Less Communication (due to distance & time difference) - She's always being tired and stress every time I do talk to her 3 Months ago she went here in USA when she got time off from her work. after not seeing each other for 6 months. First thing she did when we were at the airport is cried and told me. "I don't feel the same anymore. I don't know why" My reply "I know we haven't been together for awhile and maybe it's because of the distance. let's just go to vegas now and just have fun and see where it will go from there and I said don't pressure herself" (vegas now) When we are in public she is different she is very sweet holding my hands, kissing me, Hugging me but when we are in the hotel room she is completely different she didn't even want to have sex or do anything. Doesn't even want to be touched. We did have sex but just 2 times in 2 weeks. As for me A guy I got really confuse and don't know what to do. Thought about breaking up with her but I thought to my mind "I love this girl and everything is not about sex" 2 weeks is finished is she is going back to Europe.. While we were at the airport she wrote a letter and gave it to me she said open it when she left. both of us crying really hard at the airport. The letter said "We really had a great time together.. I will miss you so much.. It has been a short time but soon we will see each other for a long time! so don't be sad now and work hard I love you so much and I'll always be there by your side" Fast forward 1 month ago she started being distance. - Acting cold - Not saying "I love you" - Even forget our anniversary So I said to myself I should do something and I ask for a break. I told her I didn't want to do this but I think she needed this to lessen her stress and for our relationship to not get ruined. (She agreed and said I'm really sorry) fast forward 3 weeks ago. I ask her about our relationship.. and told me "I feel I don't wanna go on anymore.. It's me not you I'm really so sorry be mad at me. You are great! I will be always be here for you You will be always part of my heart" after she email me this I completely disappeared from everything. Didn't beg and just disappeared from her life. she didn't hear a single thing from me.. I blocked her in everything facebook etc... now fast forward 3 days ago I received a text from her "Hello how are you?" Replied I'm doing great and got no response from her.. I'm really confuse guys! I removed her from my contact list so when she message me the next time she will get a message saying this user has uninstalled your number.. something like that. Why is she contacting me again? What does she want?? Edited November 17, 2013 by JohnnyLoverBoy 1
Author JohnnyLoverBoy Posted November 17, 2013 Author Posted November 17, 2013 Actually her whole text is Hi how are you? I saw on the news the bad weather in your hometown is your family there ok? I said I'm doing great and they are ok. I replied 1 day after she text... anyway she can't message me now because she is removed from my contact list. only way she can contact me is email. I'm back to No Contact from now.
chris21422 Posted November 17, 2013 Posted November 17, 2013 I think she is confused bro. I'm going through a same situation right now. When a person loves you like that the feeling just doesn't go away easily. Did she said that when you guys are in long distance?
bear602 Posted November 17, 2013 Posted November 17, 2013 i agree.she just wants to pull your chain.some people will do that.
Author JohnnyLoverBoy Posted November 17, 2013 Author Posted November 17, 2013 Yep she said she want's to be alone so I gave it to her.. The thing is in 4 months I will move there and we already planned everything.. Also I applied for US Citizenship spend $1,000 for it.. Now seems everything is just gone. Feel really hurt and dissapointed I think she is confused bro. I'm going through a same situation right now. When a person loves you like that the feeling just doesn't go away easily. Did she said that when you guys are in long distance? Thanks, I regret responding.. Did I do the right thing removing her in my contact list so next time she can't contact me anymore? I have a big feeling she is gonna try to contact again maybe in email this time.. Yeah. It's still fishing. The weather is an excuse. A good one. But an excuse nonetheless. "I want to make sure he's thinking about me, but I have to have a good reason to contact him....Oh, I know! Weather! Yup, that'll do!" Cynic? No. Realist. seen it a gadzillion times on here, already.....
chris21422 Posted November 17, 2013 Posted November 17, 2013 Man just go back to no contact and never look back.
Author JohnnyLoverBoy Posted November 17, 2013 Author Posted November 17, 2013 Thanks Tara based on the story. why you think suddenly she acts this way and just doesn't wanna go on anymore? I think you seen many cases like this. The girl feelings just go up and down and I'm here really confused about everything.. Did i do the right thing asking for break? Yes Yeah....? So what? Big deal. her problem, not yours.
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