faithfully Posted November 17, 2013 Posted November 17, 2013 Hey guys, Just looking for a little advice and am ready to listen When me and my ex broke up, i deactivated my facebook. Its been 2months now and nearly a month of hardcore NC. Do you think i should get back on facebook. Am scared if i go on it i will see his post and dont really wanna do that or is it best leaving it deactivated?? Faithfully
organizedchaos Posted November 17, 2013 Posted November 17, 2013 Hey guys, Just looking for a little advice and am ready to listen When me and my ex broke up, i deactivated my facebook. Its been 2months now and nearly a month of hardcore NC. Do you think i should get back on facebook. Am scared if i go on it i will see his post and dont really wanna do that or is it best leaving it deactivated?? Faithfully Reactivate it and block him. What's the problem? 1
AllTooWell Posted November 17, 2013 Posted November 17, 2013 I'd say the problem is if she logs on he could be on her news feed, etc, which would be upsetting. But if you've gone two months without fb, why do you even want to reactivate it? I would say if you're fine without it, then don't bother reactivating it. If you want to reactivate it, log in and immediately go to your settings and block him. Don't even look at anything until you do it.
Ftheeastcoast Posted November 17, 2013 Posted November 17, 2013 Deleting your facebook is just so beta for the dumpee. How does cutting off a social tool help the dumpee? Stop hiding, just delete him and move on. It's crucial that you continue talking to those you are close to and sharing your life with them, facebook is the best tool for that. I think people think it's some way to make their ex wonder about them but it just comes across as weak. 1
Author faithfully Posted November 17, 2013 Author Posted November 17, 2013 Yeahhh think u guess r right.. Why the devil should i have to hide?? I am living happily without facebook and dont really need it at all. Just have family that dont live in the uk i talk to and havent for 2months. Dont know if it would trigger anything and we have mutual friends well mostly his friends on there who hasnt done any wrong to me. But facebook is really not that importmant. Can always email them family member. I was the dumpee. The reason why i deactivated it was the day we broke up i got accused of chatting to my ex who lives in a different city and havent seen in 4 years so got rid to try solve problem n never thought about it till my friend asked me when am i gonna come onto it again So you guys would say come out of hiding n get myself back on it???
organizedchaos Posted November 17, 2013 Posted November 17, 2013 Yeahhh think u guess r right.. Why the devil should i have to hide?? I am living happily without facebook and dont really need it at all. Just have family that dont live in the uk i talk to and havent for 2months. Dont know if it would trigger anything and we have mutual friends well mostly his friends on there who hasnt done any wrong to me. But facebook is really not that importmant. Can always email them family member. I was the dumpee. The reason why i deactivated it was the day we broke up i got accused of chatting to my ex who lives in a different city and havent seen in 4 years so got rid to try solve problem n never thought about it till my friend asked me when am i gonna come onto it again So you guys would say come out of hiding n get myself back on it??? Yes! And then just block him! You will both be completely invisible to each other.
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