mirage12 Posted November 17, 2013 Posted November 17, 2013 My ex broke up with me 8 days ago. We'd been dating 8 months but together since January. The reasons for it all are long/complicated, but the short story is that she has too much pressure from starting a new career to cope with managing the relationship too/she is under extreme stress/possible near-depression. I know the NC rules and all of that good stuff. Unfortunately, I broke NC a few days ago because her dog died...we texted back and forth just very briefly and I told her how sorry I was/ she thanked me and told me how sad she was. Neither f is tried to start real conversation. Been NC now for maybe 4 or 5 days. I miss her so much. It comes in waves - I've been keeping myself as busy as possible and surrounding myself with friends. I've been going out, got a number last night but don't care. There's so much I want to say to her that I didn't get to articulate while we were breaking up. I feel like I didn't do anything or enough to fight for us while we were breaking up. I'm feeling the void where she used to be, she made up a huge part of my life and I'm totally lost without her. I hate going to places around my neighborhood, because they remind me of so so many memories involving her. What can I do, if anything? I want so bad to tell her how I'm feeling...
smuggy95 Posted November 17, 2013 Posted November 17, 2013 Distract yourself, pop in a movie when your mind is wandering, work out when you feel angry or the sadness coming back up. Beat it out of yourself.
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