SoonMyFriend Posted November 17, 2013 Posted November 17, 2013 Hey gang, Strange question I need help with. So long story short (full story here: http://www.loveshack.org/forums/breaking-up-reconciliation-coping/breaks-breaking-up/365159-ex-contacted-me-wants-me-back-but-i-don-t-want-him) but my ex-boyfriend has taken to creeping me on social media and I am trying to block him from all sites possible. I kept his aunt and two cousins on my Facebook bc we were close and his aunt and his mom don't talk so I figured it was pretty innocent to keep them on my page (and she specifically asked in a message to be kept as friends so she could keep in touch with me). But now that my ex is actively creeping me online (he emailed me awhile back commenting on things that he would have only known through social media) I am trying to stop that. I don't know if his aunt is telling him things about me that she's found out through Facebook but it's a possibility. So my friends are now telling me I need to get his family off my social media accounts. And I do agree because my ex needs to move on with his life. My question: do I send the family a message explaining why I am cutting them off? Or do I just do it? I feel like a real ass just defriending them without telling them, but if I tell them why it's probably going to result in more drama... Any insight is appreciated Thanks LS
regine_phalange Posted November 17, 2013 Posted November 17, 2013 I feel bad about defriending people, I just put them in limited profile!
xUnknown Posted November 17, 2013 Posted November 17, 2013 I feel bad about defriending people, I just put them in limited profile! I'm the same way. I still haven't defriended her ex. I have her limited. I figure if I do it now, it will make me look like she's on my mind. Doing nothing, she doesn't know. If I unfriend, she knows I'm thinking about her. I think his family will understand. I would feel bad too. When I considered unfriending my ex, I had the same thoughts as you. Right now, they're still my friends, but I don't know if my ex is stalking me or anything, especially to your extend. I would unfriend, no message - they will know why.
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