I've been confused for a future housewife

[Miracle90]

It seems that there are guys that only have two categories

 

1) Former party-girl they would never present to his parents nor consider a relationship with her

 

2) Inexperienced woman that they want to marry and have kids with

 

I don't fit neither of those categories. I've only been 2 long term relationships but I don't consider myself inexperienced, just low in partners. I'm nearly 26 years old and not interested in ever marrying nor having kids. I like spending my time travelling and learning about different cultures. If a relationship comes then it will come but that's not my priority on my list.

 

I've heard one guy told someone else how I would make a good housewife but he just wants to play the fields for now.

The last thing I want to be is a leftover's maid and reproducing machine. Like I would really in interested in him!!!!

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[d0nnivain]

It's a classic whore/Madonna complex. In his mind it's a twisted compliment. He's characterized you as the kind of woman who is "good enough" to marry.

 

 

Don't over think it but understand that he doesn't want to date you now & move on.

[carhill]

It seems that there are guys that only have two categories

 

1) Former party-girl they would never present to his parents nor consider a relationship with her

 

2) Inexperienced woman that they want to marry and have kids with

 

I don't fit neither of those categories. I've only been 2 long term relationships but I don't consider myself inexperienced, just low in partners. I'm nearly 26 years old and not interested in ever marrying nor having kids. I like spending my time travelling and learning about different cultures. If a relationship comes then it will come but that's not my priority on my list.

 

I've heard one guy told someone else how I would make a good housewife but he just wants to play the fields for now.

The last thing I want to be is a leftover's maid and reproducing machine. Like I would really in interested in him!!!!

 

3) Experienced, worldly women who bring many assets to the table as a life partner.

 

 

In your case, you're still quite young and apparently have a clear vision of your current path in life. In it, you will encounter billions of unique opinions, such as you've outlined above. People are full of opinions, just like mine on this posting. That's all they are; opinions. If not descriptive nor meaningful, one path is to accept them as one of billions and continue on. Another is to contemplate them. Another is to rant about them. Many choices.

 

Since you've experienced world travel and other cultures, perhaps there is a culture or subset which speaks more to your opinions than that currently examined here. If so, seek it out and focus time and energy on positive experiences, and men, which uplift and fulfill. Good luck.

[TheGuard13]

He thinks you're a good person and likes you a lot but is not excited by you.

 

There may be some Madonna/Whore to that...but it's more likely that someone else excites him more sexually. Guys only tend to be upright about "playing the field" when they actually have options.