Gypsie Posted November 17, 2013 Posted November 17, 2013 This friend and I go to this Trivia thing. I have a crush on the host. I am 34 and he is 50. She is dead set against me trying to pursue him. I have flirted a little bit but never really thrown myself at the guy. I barely even approached him! He has always approached me, complimented me and jokes around and stuff. I tell her this and she tells me that he is just being fake and that I am embarrassing myself in front of him. The last time I saw him and walked past him he jokingly was like "ooh girls" just being silly and when I introduced him to another friend of mine he was cracking jokes. How was that being awkward and uncomfortable? Also when I handed up answers to him and chatted a bit he was like hey gorgeous and murmured beautiful when I walked off. Big ego boost there which was pretty cool! I tell her that most the time he approached me but she just says he is just nice like that. I had lost my phone one night and he even pulled me in for a hug probably to make me feel better. She never saw any of this stuff though. Apparently it was 'just acting' she called it. Nothing ever did happen between us so I don't know why she gets so worked up about it?! I asked her how the host was going this morning when we caught up, cause I have not seen him in a while just cause I know him and she snaps at me and tells me to forget him. I was like, I am just asking cause I know him and had not seen him for a while. I can even joke around about how nothing worked out between he and I. Just don't know why she is so serious about it all, when nothing even happened? LoL.
todreaminblue Posted November 17, 2013 Posted November 17, 2013 Sounds like she likes him herself...bit of jealousy maybe..you would know...... before you started showing interest in him to her, how did she talk about him????....best wishes.....deb
Author Gypsie Posted November 17, 2013 Author Posted November 17, 2013 (edited) She has told me that I am to young for him. She is 2 years younger then me. I don't think that is it. I mentioned how there is huge age gaps between my uncle and cousins partners and she looked horrified. I honestly think age does not matter as long as you both make each other happy and are compatible. She does not talk about him at all. She just seems embarrassed about the fact that I am flirting with a 50 year old? She never said anything about the host before I mentioned being attracted to him. I honestly don't think flirting is that bad! Especially when both parties are single in which we both were. I barely even did flirt. I was a bit shy to and don't make it obvious when I like someone so I don't know what she is talking about. I know that things were not awkward between the host and I which is what is confusing about this whole thing. When my friend and I walked past the host one time he was even being silly and jokingly was like, "ooh girls" when I introduced my other friend he was joking around and making us laugh. That is not the actions of someone who is awkward around you. If anything how she is acting about the whole thing is what is making it awkward. Wish I had mentioned that when she went on about it. Edited November 17, 2013 by Gypsie
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