Loveless21 Posted November 17, 2013 Posted November 17, 2013 Any women on here that have been defemanized by their spouse? Verbally abused? How has it affected your self esteem and were you able to "build yourself" back up?
me85 Posted November 17, 2013 Posted November 17, 2013 I have. & physically. The verbal stuff is worse & much harder to heal from. It's a work in progress. Hang in there! 1
Author Loveless21 Posted November 19, 2013 Author Posted November 19, 2013 Sorry to hear I feel like if it was verbal with me it would be easier to let go of him. Since its verbal and since i said many mean things to him too it makes me think he will change.
littlejaz Posted November 19, 2013 Posted November 19, 2013 I believe a great many of us feel that way, and yes you are able to build your self esteem. It takes time and work, but it is worth it. Life is too short to live with the abuse, verbal or otherwise. If you can, get into some counseling.
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