beautifulxtragedyx5 Posted November 17, 2013 Posted November 17, 2013 I was with my boyfriend for 3 years, and we intended on settling together. He was a great guy, treated me well, and loved me very much. That said, he had no concern for his health whatsoever. Despite being diabetic, he smoked a lot, and did not exercise or watch his diet - causing him several seizures. After talking to my parents, and friends, I realized it was best to move on because the guy did not have a very promising future despite how much we loved each other. At this point, we're on good terms, and speak as very close friends. Shortly after the break-up, I came across another guy. I had no intention of pursuing a relationship as I still wasn't over my ex, but somehow things escalated, and this new guy seemed like the perfect fit for me. He was everything I always wanted, and I didn't want to lose such a great opportunity. As a result, I am now very involved with the new guy. When I'm with him, I never think about my ex or anything. BUT, one day, I'll see my ex for some coffee and I burst out in tears because I miss him so much. Today my ex met me and told me that he can no longer be best friends anymore because he is so madly in love with me, and he can't merely be friends. He will always want more, so the friendship just won't work. I don't know why but I suddenly feel extremely heart-broken. Every time I'm with my current bf.. The thought of my ex doesn't even cross my mind.. and now suddenly my world has come crashing down. I'm such a mess! I don't know what to do. PS. My current bf was always aware of my ex and I being best friends, and he was always okay with it.
cavalier99 Posted November 17, 2013 Posted November 17, 2013 You probably not in love with your ex or you wouldnt have been able to call it off so easily and jump right into a new RS, You are just upset your losing your emotional crutch. Let him go and move foward. Now if in fact your are still in love with him the answer is probably the same. You dont like the issues he has so your not willing to be with him. So..let him go and move foward and learn form this before you BU with some one u love.
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