krista28 Posted November 16, 2013 Posted November 16, 2013 so um theres this guy i recently hooked up with about 2 weeks ago. he said that my friend and i started a bunch of drama cuz he didnt call. so last night he texts me. after saying he had blocked me cuz of the drama. i told him i guess we made a mistake… he said that it definately wasnt a mistake it was all of the drama afterwards that ruined it. he keeps texting me and then saying when i answer that i am pissing him off and told me to **** off..i told him that how dare he talk to me like that and he said go f yourself. like why is he acting so passive agressive like push pull why even text me if you want nothing to do with me? and lie about blocking me? like what the heck hes 42 and im 29 now things are so ugly between us. why is he doin this?
charlietheginger Posted November 16, 2013 Posted November 16, 2013 He just wanted sex now he is done. most men don't want girlfriend's
Grumpybutfun Posted November 17, 2013 Posted November 17, 2013 krista: I thought your post was by a high school girl...therefore immaturity is why people do stuff like this. G 1
soccerrprp Posted November 17, 2013 Posted November 17, 2013 THIS guy did that and is a dingonling from the sounds of it. I doubt it was about your friends giving him grief. It was a convenient excuse courtesy of your intrusive friends.
GeorgesIsntAtHome Posted November 17, 2013 Posted November 17, 2013 He just wanted sex now he is done. most men don't want girlfriend's if you were in front of me right now I'd probably yell all kind of names at you lol I am sick of hearing that, girls go after the overconfident jackasses that only want sex because thats the kind of guys they like, I have seen so many good guys with great values and everything hit the dust just because they didnt have the matcho look and attitude that 90% of the girls dig.. I myself had quite a huge slap in the face after being about the only guy who cared for a girl other than to sleep with her in her surrounding, result: she told me that she never had any real feelings for me and that I was only a rebound, after saying a bunch of nice things to me... plus she fell for a guy who's in a relationship with another girl.. I have met my share of chicks like that so please, dont put us all in the same basket
nescafe1982 Posted November 17, 2013 Posted November 17, 2013 Who cares why he did it? He sounds like an *******. I'd stop talking to him.
Kate9292 Posted November 17, 2013 Posted November 17, 2013 if you were in front of me right now I'd probably yell all kind of names at you lol I am sick of hearing that, girls go after the overconfident jackasses that only want sex because thats the kind of guys they like, I have seen so many good guys with great values and everything hit the dust just because they didnt have the matcho look and attitude that 90% of the girls dig.. I myself had quite a huge slap in the face after being about the only guy who cared for a girl other than to sleep with her in her surrounding, result: she told me that she never had any real feelings for me and that I was only a rebound, after saying a bunch of nice things to me... plus she fell for a guy who's in a relationship with another girl.. I have met my share of chicks like that so please, dont put us all in the same basket Ummm, she wasn't obligated to return your feelings. Sucks but it happens. Sucks to fall for taken guy too, but it happens too. As for OP, others said it. That guy only wants sex and not a relationship.
Tephros Posted November 17, 2013 Posted November 17, 2013 (edited) so um theres this guy i recently hooked up with about 2 weeks ago. he said that my friend and i started a bunch of drama cuz he didnt call. so last night he texts me. after saying he had blocked me cuz of the drama. i told him i guess we made a mistake… he said that it definately wasnt a mistake it was all of the drama afterwards that ruined it. he keeps texting me and then saying when i answer that i am pissing him off and told me to **** off..i told him that how dare he talk to me like that and he said go f yourself. like why is he acting so passive agressive like push pull why even text me if you want nothing to do with me? and lie about blocking me? like what the heck hes 42 and im 29 now things are so ugly between us. why is he doin this? Why is he doing this? Short answer is he's a prick. Long answer: He's pissed you talked about the one-night-stand (ONS) with other girls in a negative way, thus lowering his chances of having more ONS with other girls. Doubt he expected to get with your close friends, but stuff gets around and he doesn't want other girls to have extra defenses with him if he decides to pretend to want a relationship to get ONS. Edited November 17, 2013 by Tephros
fifipheebs Posted November 17, 2013 Posted November 17, 2013 so um theres this guy i recently hooked up with about 2 weeks ago. he said that my friend and i started a bunch of drama cuz he didnt call. so last night he texts me. after saying he had blocked me cuz of the drama. i told him i guess we made a mistake… he said that it definately wasnt a mistake it was all of the drama afterwards that ruined it. he keeps texting me and then saying when i answer that i am pissing him off and told me to **** off..i told him that how dare he talk to me like that and he said go f yourself. like why is he acting so passive agressive like push pull why even text me if you want nothing to do with me? and lie about blocking me? like what the heck hes 42 and im 29 now things are so ugly between us. why is he doin this? He sounds like a drama queen. Theres no time in life for people like that. Delete him and change your number.
GeorgesIsntAtHome Posted November 17, 2013 Posted November 17, 2013 Ummm, she wasn't obligated to return your feelings. Sucks but it happens. Sucks to fall for taken guy too, but it happens too. As for OP, others said it. That guy only wants sex and not a relationship. note the "she told me all kind of nice things", letting me to belive she had feelings, wich she even told me.. so yeah, in some way she was, cause she has been lying through her teeth and playing with someone else's feelings that not only sucks it's just wrong
regine_phalange Posted November 17, 2013 Posted November 17, 2013 When I read your post, I involuntarily said "yuck". Don't waste your time.
MidwestUSA Posted November 17, 2013 Posted November 17, 2013 LOL. Probably because at 42, it makes his brain bleed to deal with girls who type "cuz" and say "like" all the time. Apparently he wanted to get laid by a youngin', but he wanted to avoid all the silly drama that comes WITH it. Grumpy hit the nail on the head. This type of immature nonsense isn't worth the price of admission. Maybe Mr. Midlife Crisis learned a lesson and will stick to grown women his own age from now on. ^^this^^ Girl, you have no less than ten threads going about this topic. You were a ONS. Why are you obsessing about why he did what he did? I have no doubt you're still wanting to call him to 'apologize'. He's blocked you cuz (LOL!) his bunny boiler radar has gone off. You really have to move on, for your own good.
Zahara Posted November 17, 2013 Posted November 17, 2013 14 threads in one month about a guy that used you for sex, once. Why don't you go back and read the advice on these threads everytime you have to ask why he did what he did.
Author krista28 Posted November 18, 2013 Author Posted November 18, 2013 I'm gonna ignore the past two threads because ...i have talked to this guy since and he asked me to come over again . I'm not boiling anyo.anyone's bunny. he said there was no mistake only the crap afterwards. guyss a loaer..i blocked him and told him not to talk to me anymore . He didn't use me for sex we both did it then he got freaking weird.. end of story. i However do feel if i didn't freakout on him he'd still be bto it..ps he never bloxked me...it was a lie
Adele0908 Posted November 18, 2013 Posted November 18, 2013 he seems arrogant. but maybe he just felt you were calling too much and being negative. just leave it alone for now, and only talk to him when you are calm and clear-minded (not overly emotional). In a situation like this, its best just to learn from it and move on.
Author krista28 Posted November 18, 2013 Author Posted November 18, 2013 I am over it. i hate the guy tolf him to leave me alone. there's a reason he cant hold a vf anyways he's a dickhead. loser.jerk. i can only hope the loser doesn't contatt me again
Author krista28 Posted November 19, 2013 Author Posted November 19, 2013 Maybe ya i was being negative aand textinhim too nuch but i basically told him to hit the road and keel walking . On one hand I'm kinda sad cuz i liked him but oh the other i know he's a dick so.
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