Buster Posey Posted November 16, 2013 Posted November 16, 2013 so i'm tired of fighting with my ex, she's totally ignoring me and planning things with our son is getting difficult. i plan on sending her something like this.... "look i'm sorry for pressuring you for everything. i just want us to be amicable, there's no need for all this drama..." so what should i add or take out??
2fargone Posted November 16, 2013 Posted November 16, 2013 I would make it more general, less finger-pointing... Like 'I'm sorry about everything, can we perhaps act normal.'
Author Buster Posey Posted November 16, 2013 Author Posted November 16, 2013 I would make it more general, less finger-pointing... Like 'I'm sorry about everything, can we perhaps act normal.' i tried saying something like that many times. she still ignores me.
ConfusedHumanBeing Posted November 17, 2013 Posted November 17, 2013 She ignores you because she doesn't want to be with you and doesn't want you around other than with your child. What does texting her that do? It doesn't solve anything nor helps anything. Do nothing. 1
Author Buster Posey Posted November 17, 2013 Author Posted November 17, 2013 She ignores you because she doesn't want to be with you and doesn't want you around other than with your child. What does texting her that do? It doesn't solve anything nor helps anything. Do nothing. do nothing, then what... should i expect something to happen?
oracle Posted November 17, 2013 Posted November 17, 2013 What are you expecting to happen? Welcome to the landscape in which you are going to have to interact with her for the sake of your son. leave it to the absolute minimum. Its only a fight if you get defensive and respond, or instigate something. a 7 word vocabulary for you should do it: Yes No When Where How Much Ok You get to control if it becomes a fight or not.. you already made it clear she ignores pretty much anything else that isn't son related. Any other reasons for wanting to text her is complete BS, and you know it. do nothing, then what... should i expect something to happen? 1
ConfusedHumanBeing Posted November 17, 2013 Posted November 17, 2013 do nothing, then what... should i expect something to happen? What do you mean then what? That's it lol. What are you expecting? If she contacts you, ONLY respond to stuff about your child. Ignore everything else. She doesn't want to reconcile and clear now she doesn't want to be friends. Anything now makes you look bad.
CarrieT Posted November 17, 2013 Posted November 17, 2013 Don't send her any texts about your relationship, feelings, or hope for amicability. Keep it wholly and entirely about your son and make it a business relationship. Keep it curt, to the point, and matter-of-factual. And nothing else.
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