flight E Posted November 16, 2013 Posted November 16, 2013 Saw the sister of a girl I BU with. She was askin why I left. I felt she might misrepresent what I said to her sister who I has been in nc for a month andd a half with but never told why I BU, this mail. Does it make me look as if am weak and a crazy ex. Saw your sis yesterday and feel I should reach u. First I understand how you started feeling and I know know my part in it. am not perfect but believe I have treated you with respect, care and had your best interest at heart. I was angry with you not because I feel I was right in everything that happened but becos I was being disrespected and taking for granted. I put up with a lot for that long and was good to you because when I knew you, you were an honest, beautiful, respectful and humble person. It's difficult not to be compassionate to the person u were so I don't regret that but this new person I really don't want to know. I have no illwill towards you because I know neither you nor I is perfect and never wished for you to start feeling cornered even though I understand how you feel. You needn't respond pls. We truly need to a lot of space from each other. Be gud.
xUnknown Posted November 16, 2013 Posted November 16, 2013 Saw the sister of a girl I BU with. She was askin why I left. I felt she might misrepresent what I said to her sister who I has been in nc for a month andd a half with but never told why I BU, this mail. Does it make me look as if am weak and a crazy ex. Saw your sis yesterday and feel I should reach u. First I understand how you started feeling and I know know my part in it. am not perfect but believe I have treated you with respect, care and had your best interest at heart. I was angry with you not because I feel I was right in everything that happened but becos I was being disrespected and taking for granted. I put up with a lot for that long and was good to you because when I knew you, you were an honest, beautiful, respectful and humble person. It's difficult not to be compassionate to the person u were so I don't regret that but this new person I really don't want to know. I have no illwill towards you because I know neither you nor I is perfect and never wished for you to start feeling cornered even though I understand how you feel. You needn't respond pls. We truly need to a lot of space from each other. Be gud. I hope you used spell check before you sent that.... You sent it...does it really matter? Personally, I would have waited a few months, see if they wanted to get coffee then discussed the matter in person, calmly. To me, it just looks like you were looking for a response. Thats what I would get out of it if my ex who dumped me sent somehting like that.
inaya42 Posted November 16, 2013 Posted November 16, 2013 that seems kind of mean. why would you send a note like that to someone you dunped and who has maintained no contact?
Author flight E Posted November 17, 2013 Author Posted November 17, 2013 Was not that kind of dumping, I loved her dearly, it was more like I didn't have a choice. She was acting. Distant, refused to talk abt it. So I was forced to ask her to take a break. She knos that. I am still like trying to move on. Was just scared her sister might give her the wrong impression. So was trying to put things correctly. Strange it sounds mean I didn't want to cut across that way
Author flight E Posted November 17, 2013 Author Posted November 17, 2013 I maintain nc she tried to reach me over sometin unnecessary but I didn't respond. Well sent that over bbm and it's showin she has not read it
Author flight E Posted November 17, 2013 Author Posted November 17, 2013 She obvious wants me to kno she did not bother reading it
Author flight E Posted November 17, 2013 Author Posted November 17, 2013 It was also obvious that I was the one hurt by the break I guess I messed up. I will just take it as one of those tins n go back nc
Author flight E Posted November 17, 2013 Author Posted November 17, 2013 And I was not looking 4 a response. She expects me to want her back. Knowing her, am sure she thinkin that the note is about that
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