fireworks Posted November 16, 2013 Posted November 16, 2013 Okay, dating a guy for 3 months and I'd like to end it but I'm not sure how. Basically I really like this guy but he's disrespectful and knows it. He's hot and cold (I'm falling in love with you vs. We are good friends). Sometimes responds to my texts a ton and then does not. I know I'm the only girl he's seeing. We are neighbors and I spend the night at his place during most of the week. He told me last weekend that he knows he treats me like an ********* sometimes and how I don't deserve it. He said the reason why is he needed to push me away, scared of his feelings, thinks about me all the time and he's scared. He then made a great effort to be much nicer and I thought things were going great and might actually change. Then Wednesday night I spent the night and we are cuddling (we have NOT had sex yet) and I mention to him I want to get to know him better and want us to learn more about each other. So he tells me "deep" things about his life which are all sexual... This bothers me and I tell him I'd like to get to know him more outside of sexual stuff. He then tells me that he'll get to that after we pass the infatuation stage. Then he says we aren't even in the infatuation stage yet... that we are still at the friendship stage! That bothered me and I told him and all he could say is to give it time. I feel like he's messing with me. Saying he's falling for me over a month ago and now saying he's never been infatuated with me. He's done some other disrespectful things and I'm currently trying to figure out if I'm in love with this guy, and I feel maybe this is a good point to just end it since I don't feel secure or safe with my feelings around a guy who is so hot and cold. What's the best way to end this? Again we are next door neighbors so ignoring him wont work.
regine_phalange Posted November 16, 2013 Posted November 16, 2013 wow, he certainly knows how to be unromantic! just tell him casually and steadily you feel like being single!
truth_seeker Posted November 16, 2013 Posted November 16, 2013 he's disrespectful and knows it. He told me last weekend that he knows he treats me like an ********* sometimes and how I don't deserve it. He's done some other disrespectful things This is more than enough information for you to end it with him.
Adele0908 Posted November 18, 2013 Posted November 18, 2013 Just distance yourself from him. Give him more and more space and stop seeing him and talking to him as much. Trying to talk it out with him may lead to more frustration.
todreaminblue Posted November 18, 2013 Posted November 18, 2013 just try to be open and honest with him that he makes you feel insecure and unsure and go from there.......deb
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