Wings Of Love Posted November 16, 2013 Posted November 16, 2013 You may notice I said "had" instead of "has". I was told today that he got with the girl on November 9th and they split up on November 11th. My family told me this thinking I might find it amusing that the relationship with the girl he's been all over failed so spectacularly, but I don't think I've ever found anything less funny. I can't honestly say how I feel right now. At first I could feel that sickening crushing sensation inside me, like my heart was in a vice. That's when the tears came. The sadness was quickly followed by anger, but that too passed within minutes. I felt fine again. Carried on with what I was doing. But then I felt it slowly creeping back, washing over me again. I was out at the time, and I've never been so desperate to get home and to be alone. All I want to do now is curl up and cry. I know a girlfriend of 2 days means very little, and from what has been said it seems as though he called it off with her and has now cut off all communication too. But at the time they got together it had been less than 4 months since we ended. I don't know, it just hurts. I thought I was doing alright but this seems like a huge setback. Any words of comfort or encouragement?
reddragon588 Posted November 16, 2013 Posted November 16, 2013 They dated for 2 days? What are they? In 6th grade? Did they hold hands? If not, it clearly wasn't serious.
Author Wings Of Love Posted November 16, 2013 Author Posted November 16, 2013 They dated for 2 days? What are they? In 6th grade? Did they hold hands? If not, it clearly wasn't serious. This is what I have been told. The flirting went on for weeks but I've long since started NC so I had no idea until it was mentioned to me. Then they got together, lasted 2 days, and suddenly he went back to being single, deleted her from his Facebook and removed every post she ever left on his wall. Now she's moving away. It sounds immature doesn't it? But he is 21. As for her, I've never seen nor heard of her so I don't know how old she might be. Obviously nothing serious, but it's still a blow.
MoooOinkBaaa Posted November 16, 2013 Posted November 16, 2013 What if I told you he broke up with her because he's not over you.
Author Wings Of Love Posted November 16, 2013 Author Posted November 16, 2013 What if I told you he broke up with her because he's not over you. Funnily enough, family members have wondered the same thing. I'll confess that I hoped it was true...but if it was, why would he not attempt to reach out, to reconcile? I can't even entertain that thought right now, my hopes were already too high before this.
2fargone Posted November 16, 2013 Posted November 16, 2013 Funnily enough, family members have wondered the same thing. I'll confess that I hoped it was true...but if it was, why would he not attempt to reach out, to reconcile? I can't even entertain that thought right now, my hopes were already too high before this. He can be not over you but still don't want to come back. Just a thought... 1
Author Wings Of Love Posted November 16, 2013 Author Posted November 16, 2013 He can be not over you but still don't want to come back. Just a thought... That's true, I hadn't thought of it like that. But even so, I think it's better that I continue to believe he is over me and has moved on. It's easier to let go that way.
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