aaron11892 Posted November 16, 2013 Posted November 16, 2013 (edited) Weird one last night. It's been 2 months since the break up. At the start of the break up I had a few dreams; one was of me seeing her and asking if she loved me anymore, she shook her head and walked off into the distance. Then the night after I had a dream she was with someone else. However I had a dream last night and from what I can remember we were looking at each other from a distance in a train station from opposite platforms. I went over to a bench and sat down and she came over and sat next to me crying and was saying how sorry she was for leaving me and it was the biggest mistake she ever made. I couldn't do or say anything in the dream. It felt so real and woke up believing it had real happened and she wanted me back, then reality sunk in and omg it was horrible. Does anyone know what this dream is telling me subconciously? There has to be some reason, no matter how little, of me dreaming of her crying and apologizing. Is it just what my subconcious is wishing for and has brought it up in a dream or somehow I telepathically connected to her last night and she really is regretting the break up? haha Edited November 16, 2013 by aaron11892
im_thedude Posted November 16, 2013 Posted November 16, 2013 I agree that it's what your sub conscience is wishing for you. Remember, it's important to keep the conscious, logical part of your mind very separate from your dreams. Your moment of clarity will come when the two align and you (sub conscience included) genuinely begin to move on. Personally I think dreams like the one you had are a sign you have a lot of work to recover from this break up. 1
crazybestie101 Posted November 16, 2013 Posted November 16, 2013 Weird one last night. It's been 2 months since the break up. At the start of the break up I had a few dreams; one was of me seeing her and asking if she loved me anymore, she shook her head and walked off into the distance. Then the night after I had a dream she was with someone else. However I had a dream last night and from what I can remember we were looking at each other from a distance in a train station from opposite platforms. I went over to a bench and sat down and she came over and sat next to me crying and was saying how sorry she was for leaving me and it was the biggest mistake she ever made. I couldn't do or say anything in the dream. It felt so real and woke up believing it had real happened and she wanted me back, then reality sunk in and omg it was horrible. Does anyone know what this dream is telling me subconciously? There has to be some reason, no matter how little, of me dreaming of her crying and apologizing. Is it just what my subconcious is wishing for and has brought it up in a dream or somehow I telepathically connected to her last night and she really is regretting the break up? haha I am going through exactly from 2- 3 days , its been 38 days of NC. 2 days back i had dream that he had wrote me 3 emails to reach out to me ( i didnt check my email for month now , deleted all texting app & FB). Then following night i dreamed about him spending time with me as couple. Even in days now , some how i just come across his name , places we visit , even his picture , while booking my airline ticket all of sudden the city he lives in popped up in search engine even though i wasn't searching it. Like as i said , i just come across all these memories now adays and stupidly enough i smile and feel so happy about these memories. I felt like it was time of my life that i will always cherish. Now , i don't know all this even help me move on.
me85 Posted November 16, 2013 Posted November 16, 2013 (edited) Dreams are the worst. I never dreamt of my ex even when he was my BF until he told me I wasn't "the one" in so many words & deleted then blocked me from his FB & was a complete and total ******* to me afterwards. When the realization that he had been playing me & lying about his true feelings for me set in, it made it easier AND harder to accept. Can't explain that. But... I began to have various dreams about him everynight. He's a jerk and I know I am better off. So I was lucky he ended it the dirty way he did. Makes it easier to let go. I'm about there. Yay! Edited November 16, 2013 by me85
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